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Just Around the Corner: Buffalo Wild Wings

Monday, April 14th, 2025

Aidann Gia Bacolodan, Pace University

Every American has seen their ads when watching football on the television or on billboards during road trips. They’re Buffalo Wild Wings! This nationally famous establishment is known for the wide range of flavors they offer for their traditional wings, perfect for a meal after a long night out from bar-hopping or essential for a tailgate before the big game. Just around the corner from New York University, a Buffalo Wild Wings Go location serves customers everyday, even into deeper hours for those late-night snackers. 

The interior of the Buffalo Wild Wings Go location on First Avenue.

Amanda, one of my good friends, and I were craving wings terribly, which inevitably brought us to the closest Buffalo Wild Wings. Neither of us had eaten that afternoon. We were two famished college students eagerly pouring over the extensive menu. Pleased to be eating food outside of our dining hall, we selected an abundance of entrees and appetizers to stuff our faces for lunch. 

For starters, we had two servings of french fries and a generous helping of fried pickles. Amanda and I fought over the latter: the juicy and bittersweet pickle slices were coated in a light breading, complemented by a tangy, slightly spicy dipping sauce. As for the fries, these very thin potato slices were plentiful in amount and seasoned well with salt and pepper. We chose to add a salt and vinegar dry rub for extra seasoning, though the fries had plenty of flavor by themselves.

Our fried pickles and french fries for starters.

“The fried pickles were an amazing appetizer. Just so nice and crispy, with a good ratio of breading to pickle!” Amanda commented. “Plus, you can’t go wrong with fries. They were a good portion size, and honestly some of the best restaurant fries I’ve had.”

The two of us shared several entrees: six piece wings with lemon pepper sauce, six piece wings with medium sauce, six piece wings with spicy garlic sauce, a buffalo ranch chicken wrap, and an all american burger.

We began with the monstrous, double-patty, classic burger. The ground beef makes for a greasy, but delicious burger, especially sandwiched in between two brioche buns. The burger showcases a heaping amount of American cheese, tomatoes, pickles, lettuce, and mayonnaise. It is a classic staple in fast food done right.

“Although it was messy because of the mayo, it was amazing for me personally because of the piles of pickles and lettuce. The bun is delicious and it is truly a huge burger,” she noted.

Amanda tried the buffalo wrap and gave verbal approval of the entree. She noted an abundance of cheese and a proportionate amount of chicken inside. 

Our three types of wings, with the lemon pepper on top.

“This actually used to be my go to dinner at Buffalo Wild Wings, before I liked wings on the bone!”

Still hot within their cardboard packaging, Amanda and I practically salivated once the wings arrived. The spicy garlic and medium were fairly similar in taste, a detail that did not diminish their deliciousness! Both were of mild heat and pungent flavor. I enjoyed every tender bite and would love to try the traditional bone in-wing for these classics. My personal favorite was the lemon pepper, though I suppose it was Amanda’s as well. We fought over the remaining few pieces and decided to have our own orders the next time we returned. 

Amanda is seen here happily taking photos of our half-devoured lunch together.

If we were to suggest two main takeaways, Amanda and I would recommend students try the fried pickles for a starter, followed by the delectable traditional wings with lemon pepper sauce. We washed down our afternoon meal with fountain drinks, primarily consisting of Diet Pepsi and Pepsi Zero Sugar. Thankfully, Buffalo Wild Wings on First Ave has offered to give students a 15% discount when they present the coupon below and their valid student ID.

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The Mental Health Benefits of Being a Girl’s Girl

Thursday, March 20th, 2025

A few months ago, I wrote about how women perpetuating the patriarchy was taking a toll on me (as if it were new information). I was frustrated by the way I was being objectified by men and women alike, belittled and dumbed down into something along the lines of a rom-com side character scripted by Richard Curtis. I have lived long enough to know that when that happens, someone is simply projecting their own insecurities, but by god is it still so incredibly annoying. 

The truth is I don’t blame women, or men for that matter, for being insecure. The pressures we face today are unimaginable, and the standard of beauty and overall being is simply unattainable. If you’re not living off brand deals and traveling the world, are you really living? If you don’t have abs like Glen Powell, what kind of girl even wants you? And if you aren’t on the list of Forbes 30 Under 30, have you even found a purpose in life? It’s absurd what we compare ourselves to rather than appreciate all we’ve done. 

Societal pressure has left us all insecure at one moment or another, and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. The point is how we handle that insecurity of ours. Maybe you’re insecure about your body type because the world has told you it doesn’t compare to Charlie’s Angels, but does it really make you feel better to comment “Jeez, put on some meat” under an influencer’s bikini pic? I may not blame anyone for feeling like they don’t measure up from time to time, but I will 100% blame women for putting other women down just to feel good about themselves.

According to Her Campus, “A recent social media phenomenon, the term ‘girl’s girl’ is used to describe women who support other women through every aspect of their lives, and not just the women directly in their lives either.” To be a girl’s girl takes active work. It involves dismantling the competitiveness and insecurities society has propelled onto us, which can be incredibly difficult when it comes to things we’ve been taught all our lives. 

My mom: the ultimate girl’s girl

If you’ve been so fortunate as to have primarily healthy female friendships all your life, you may think to yourself, “Well, I know a lot of girl’s girls, and I thought most girls were girl’s girls, so just how many aren’t?” You’ll be interested to find that someone calls a woman a ‘slut’ or ‘whore’ on X (formerly Twitter) almost 10,000 times per day, and half of those comments are from women, a 2016 Washington Post study stated. More interestingly, The Workplace Bullying Institute found women bully other women up to 80% of the time. And if it couldn’t get worse, a 2020 study by the United Nations found that about 90% of men AND women “hold some sort of bias against women, providing new clues to the invisible barriers women face in achieving equality, and a potential path forward to shattering the Glass Ceiling.” The truth is, the world needs a LOT more actual girl’s girls, not just performances.

It’s important for us as women to remember that being a girl’s girl extends far beyond just watching another girl’s drink at the bar. It’s in the way we speak to each other, the way we act with each other, and the way we stand up for one another. It’s in the way we stop ourselves from falling into sexist rhetoric, from using gender as an insult, from objectifying each other more than we applaud one another. Like the scene from Mean Girls, I’m sure we could all raise our hands and admit we’ve said things we regret about another girl. You’d think, though, that once we reach Ms. Norbury’s age at the latest, all the weird ‘girl-on-girl crime’ would just… fizzle out? 

In our 20s, it seems to just take on more forms. A random back-handed compliment from a friend here, an insulting up-and-down glance from a stranger there, A humiliation fetish disguised as a joke everywhere! Not to mention, it’s SO second-hand embarrassing for me and for everyone I tell afterward (Yes, I will absolutely gossip about the hurtful thing you said to me. It’s my way of coping). You should see the grimaces and furrowed brows that glide over everyone’s faces, the cringes and widened eyes that follow suit, and the “Um wtf!” texts that fly in like clockwork. If non-girl’s girls knew they came off this way, would they change their ways, like Regina George? Or would they still play victim, siding with misogynists, calling women hormonal b-words? I’d like to think they can still be saved.

Tally: another ultimate girl’s girl

If we support one another, uplift one another, and stand up for one another, it won’t only make us better people, but actually make us feel better, too. A study from the National Institute of Health states, “Friendships among women can provide critical social resources and promote overall wellness, feelings of self-worth, and empowerment. Findings from studies that examine these relationships among women indicate that the quality of friendship support is more important than the mere number. Supportive friendships, which are characterized by intimacy, nurturance, loyalty, and prosocial behaviors, are associated with heightened psychological and physical well-being.” 

Being a supportive girl’s girl is so important, especially in a world that has always been and still is against women. Uplifting other women creates a sense of community, which means we’ll have more people to hear us out and learn from in times of need. Hyping up our friends and strangers also shifts our mindset away from toxic comparison, because life is hard enough without mentally competing in a game no one actually wins. Plus, acts of kindness release feel-good hormones, so we’re not just being nice—we’re chemically hacking our own brains into happiness. At the end of the day, why make enemies out of the very people who could be your biggest allies?

“I love my husband, but it is nothing like a conversation with a woman who understands you. I grow so much from those conversations.” – Beyonce

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Brenna Sheets is a graduate student in Emerson College’s Writing and Publishing M.A. program. Her hobbies include going on long walks, watching bad television, reading, and writing.

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Just Around the Corner: Kyuramen

Thursday, March 20th, 2025

Aidann Gia Bacolodan, Pace University

Finding high quality and reasonably priced Asian food in New York City can be a difficult task. Sometimes, it can be a hassle to venture all the way to Flushing. Other times, greasy Chinatown dishes are not the type of meal I crave. A freshly made, sit-down dinner with a friend is one of my ideal ways of winding down after a rough day of applying to scholarships and sending emails. I am always looking for new restaurants that serve Asian cuisine, and my good friend Marilisa came with me to try Kyuramen, located just around the corner from New York University. 

Pictured here is the bar seating available for customers.

Our hostess sat us in a wooden booth with a thin privacy curtain separating us from bustling waiters, chatty families, and clinking dishes. Marilisa and I both ordered Thai iced teas, notable for their sweet, spiced flavor and unique apricot color. A platter of takoyaki arrived swiftly, decorated with a drizzle of a deep-brown glaze and mounds of salty bonito flakes. These deep fried pancake balls were stuffed with piping hot octopus, harmoniously creating an appetizer that melts in the mouth. 

Marilisa and I ordered two iced Thai teas to drink.

“For the octopus balls, they’re sweet with a slight crunch,” Marilisa reviewed. “I thought they were really creamy and smooth inside!”

Five skewers, composed of various mouthwatering ingredients, enticed us the moment they were set on the table. Each has their own distinct flavor and texture, like the pork belly piece, which was juicy, greasy, and fatty. It was my favorite from the shareable dish, with the tender and moist beef skewer as a close second. Marilisa found the scallops to be delicate, though thoroughly enjoyed them, while the zucchini was soft, squeaky, and seasoned.

Our shareables set out in a fancy display.

A honeycomb-shaped ceramic dish, set on an oak platform, sat at the edge of our table. Each section was composed of different mini-appetizers, spanning from classic options, like shrimp tempura, to more obscure bites, like a spicy chashu salad ball. A chili garlic seasoning on the portion of edamame is a perfect snack in between the abundant, potent flavors of the other sides.

“I found the unagi eel to be very rich. The lobster and pork ball was crunchy and spicy inside. I liked the refreshing lobster topping,” Marilisa reflected.

She had ordered a rice burger for her entree, describing the teriyaki beef to be traditional and the slight saltiness in the rice to be pleasurable. I selected omurice, a Japanese dish made with a runny omelette placed over a bed of rice. The waitress sliced open the fried, yet runny egg and poured a curry mixture over my main course. It was a beautiful presentation, equivalent to the simple and delicious character behind the meal.

Our wide array of food to be consumed within a private wooden booth.

To tame our heightened senses from the saltiness and spice derived from the majority of the previous dishes, Marilisa and I selected three desserts: a matcha tiramisu, a lychee jelly pudding, and a slice of matcha crepe cake.

”The matcha tiramisu was creamy and smooth, with a heavier flavor of the custard over the matcha. The jelly had these really pretty edible flowers. It was super sweet, almost candy-like in flavor,” she observed. 

I personally loved the tiramisu more than any other, as I am not a fan of espresso. The dish was not overly moist or soaked in flavor, like many found at sit-down eateries and locales. 

“The matcha crepe cake had beautiful, textured, clean layers,” Marilisa said. “There was a smooth filling between layers with a strong, earthy matcha flavor.”

From top to bottom are the desserts we selected: the matcha tiramisu, a slice of matcha crepe cake, and the small bowl of lychee jelly.

The rich, matcha crepe cake paired well with the thick custard found in the tiramisu, as they balanced out one another’s flavors. The desserts were beautifully presented with their complementary colors of a pastel pink in the lychee jelly and the sage green elements evident in the two other dishes.

“Kyuramen has a very cozy environment and lots of options! A pretty unique spot. Lots of rich flavors and variety!” Marilisa concluded.

I found the Asian establishment to be an excellent choice for a pleasant, semi-formal dinner with friends or family. The food was impeccable, authentic, and quick, while the atmosphere varies depending on where individuals are seated. The main room holds a relaxed, talkative environment, while the private booths allow for more intimate conversations and focus on the food itself. My personal favorites were the curry omurice and the assorted honeycomb platter, two platters not commonly found at other restaurants. For students looking to try Kyuramen, Campus Clipper is offering a coupon for 10% off when presented with a valid student ID.

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Just Around the Corner: Cantiere Hambirreria

Tuesday, February 18th, 2025

After a week of studying for my College Board CLEP exam and passing, I needed to treat myself to a heavy meal once I received my scores. Upon figuring out a dinner place, I discovered an ambient Italian restaurant just around the corner from New York University. My friend, Amanda, and I indulged in a three course meal at their only establishment in the country. Thursday night wasn’t terribly busy, though the gentle chatter around us and up-beat music infused our environment with an energetic night.

The rustic interior of Cantiere.

”From the moment I walked in, I was amazed by the ambiance that was created here. the lights and decor were so fun and stylish, and really added to my entire dining experience,” Amanda noted.

The focaccia bread, topped with mozzarella and cured meats.

We started the night with the most Instagrammable appetizer I’ve ever had: the betoniera dell’ operaio, a bread bowl of rustic apulian dough flooded with tomato sauce and a side of traditional meatball. The mariana sauce was seasoned well with basil and shaved parmesan, pairing well with crunchy, high quality bread that was satisfying to rip and imported from Italy. The moist, juicy meatballs were also dusted with parmesan. Our second appetizer was the crudo focaccia, consisting of chewy, sweet bread, topped with cured meat, fresh arugula, mozzarella, a salty-sweet balsamic glaze, and deep-red cherry tomatoes. Both dishes set the bar high for our expectations regarding the rest of our night. Cantiere—meaning construction site or worksite in Italian—did not disappoint. 

Our first appetizer of the night, big enough for two or three people.

The campano burger, oozing with mozzarella, prime beef, and pistachio pesto, was Amanda’s choice for her entree. My pugliese burger also had exceptional prime beef, but with smoked burrata, sweet Italian capocollo, pan-fried tomatoes, and extra virgin olive oil. Our main courses had glossy smooth brioche buns with branded fire stamps, showcasing the establishment’s signature “C” in a lavish typeface. Served with a side of salted, crispy french fries on a wooden platter, the Italian-American style burgers were bigger than our mouths could fit.

The grand displays of our burgers, fries, and appetizers.

Amanda described our tiramisu dessert as “homemade goodness” which was not too heavy on the espresso flavor and had “delicious handmade cream, crispy ladyfingers, and such a fun presentation” considering it was served in a real silver moka pot. Our personal favorites of the evening were the beautiful displays of focaccia and the burgers, washed down with fancy glass bottles of Coca-Cola. 

The establishment’s proud, classic tiramisu served in a moka pot.

“I loved my entire experience with Cantiere. The rustic and chic interior—amazing food made for an amazing night out for dinner!” she reviewed.

Cantiere was truly a perfect spot for the end of a long week for two students in need of a hearty, mouthwatering, succulent meal. The overall environment, characterized by warm lighting and entertaining music, made it a great dinner place for friends or family. The Italian burger joint has teamed up with the Campus Clipper to give students 20% off when they show their valid student ID. 

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Just Around the Corner: Colomba Cafe and Bakery

Saturday, February 15th, 2025

In between my classes, I wandered into Colomba for a quick and filling brunch—which is exactly what I got. This small business, situated not far from the New York University string of buildings in Greenwich Village, serves a variety of pastries and sandwiches to customers, alongside their unique menu of beverages. Ranging from drip coffee made from La Colombe’s beans, to lesser known flavors, like their limited edition, bright-purple taro latte. All students can find their cup of tea here, especially when the baristas are more than happy to help and have a high-spirited chat over the counter. Colomba Cafe and Bakery is just right when one needs to unwind, curl up in a chair, with a hot chocolate and a book, or if they’re running late for class and are seeking a quick bite.

A look into Colomba’s simple, welcoming environment.

Inside the quaint establishment were a few tables and chairs, some more eclectic in color and material than others. Their cliente ranged from hungry, on-campus college students to business professional regulars. Many of them have built a rapport with the baristas, engaging in continued small-talk about their studies, friends, and complicated little lives. It was a wonderful communal space to sit in, even if it’s just to watch others socialize and smile. One of the baristas, Garrett, helped me for the majority of my late breakfast. He seemed to know many of those standing in line, hopeful for their daily pick-me-up in the form of espresso and milk. 

I started with two drinks: an iced taro latte and a hot chocolate, both with oat milk. The taro drink was a deep, royal purple, which was initially unsweetened, but fixed with the simple syrup provided at the self-serve counter. It was unlike any latte I’ve had previously. It was unlike ube, but definitely resembles an authentic, earthy, taro taste. Meanwhile, the hot chocolate was warm enough to drink—not scalding hot to the point where I burn my tongue and all food is ruined for the day, which often happens at other cafes in the city. This cocoa was not overly rich, sweet, or heavy. It was just enough for a sugary start to my day, with a layer of foamy and frothy goodness sitting atop. 

Garrett recommended the “parm sandwich” and breakfast croissant with ham and cheese for my meal, to which I indulged in. It was toasted for me and served on coffee-brown cardstock trays, lined with vibrant, yellow paper. The sandwich consisted mostly of a thick bed of arugula between two pieces of thick, chewy, white bread. Thick slices of mozzarella, prosciutto, and tomato fit perfectly into my breakfast, with a generous helping of olive oil slathered onto the classic baguette. The flakey, buttery croissant paired nicely with the salty, gooey yolk of my overeasy egg. The ham was a necessary and filling addition of protein. I was just able to order two desserts before taking off for my international relations class. 

My spread of delicious goods for the morning.

A little golden brown teddy bear stared at me through the display case, with chocolate decals in the form of a smiley face and buttons. I had to have one—so, I did! The madeleine-like treat has crispy edges and a moist, sponge cake texture. It was slightly sweet, unlike the black and white cookie I ordered. This dessert was much larger, which made it worth the price. The white frosting had a lemon flavor. The dried dark chocolate was velvety and sickly sweet. I enjoyed the cookie itself: dense, yet still airy and soft texture. Out of all the different delectables I sampled, I favored the teddy bear and hot chocolate the most.

The little golden brown bear that caught my eye.

Colomba Cafe and Bakery is a notable stop for university students within the area if they need a coffee to-go, or a wide selection of baked goods for a chat with a friend. Papa Pascel—the owner’s name. according to Garrett—had partnered with the Campus Clipper to give students 20% off their purchase with the coupon below and their valid student ID.


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Just Around the Corner: Kalye

Tuesday, February 4th, 2025

Aidann Gia, Pace University

I moved to the United States at eighteen months old from an urbanized, mountainous city named Baguio, located on the largest island in the Philippines. I’ve resided just north of Annapolis, Maryland since, attending mostly predominantly white institutions. I am currently a senior at Pace University, surrounded by peers with skin tones that do not resemble mine and cultural experiences that do not align with my own. To be surrounded by individuals that understand the same language, feel music that resonates with my collectivist values, and eat foods that resemble common suppers at grandma’s. Finding Filipino cuisine isn’t terribly difficult, as Little Manila in Queens flourishes and the Jollibee franchise grows throughout the city. These spots, however, lack the essence of fine dining and occurence of basking in all the senses a meal can offer. The elements I deemed necessary for an optimal dinner as a homesick first-gen college student were all found in Kalye, an Asian owned establishment within walking distance of my college campus. 

The dimly lit interior of Kalye, with projections of old Filipino films and small gilded table lamps.

Kimi, my close friend, ventured with me to try out their selection after our last class. She identifies as Chinese American, with some rudimentary knowledge and cultural appreciation for Filipino foods, but was ecstatic when I invited her to dinner.

“The space was very cozy and homey. The lighting was not harsh, which I loved. They were playing Filipino movies on a projector in the back which added a unique touch to the vibe of the restaurant,” Kimi noted. 

Although just a small touch, the restaurant presenting old films with movie stars of bronze complexion and jet black hair elicited an indescribable euphoria within my body. Modern gilded lamps illuminated the dining space, cascaded an ambient glow throughout the room. The walls exhibited drawings of caricatures and quotes written in Tagalog, strewn across the entire establishment. We settled in quickly and found the menu to immediately entice us. 

To start, we placed an order for two drinks. An ube-horchata mocktail was served with a smoking cinnamon stick, placed delicately between ice cubes. The drink was heavy on the ube and left a thin film covering my tongue in the sweetness of the ube yam. The Darna cocktail encapsulated a mix of tequila, mezcal, guava, agave, aperol, lime, thai chili, club soda, and glitter stars. Both had a gorgeous, vibrant-colored presentation. 

Our Darna cocktail and ube-horchata mocktail.

We selected two appetizers: a traditional platter of pork lumpia and bowl of laaing. Lumpia is essentially crispy spring rolls stuffed with minced garlic and a sweet pork filling. The six pieces and complementary sweet chili sauce served were the staples of the evening. This bowl of laaing was comprised of dried taro leaves and coconut milk to create a dip for the side of pita chips. 

”The laaing with chips was so addictive. I couldn’t stop eating it. The salty chips with savory dip and spicy chili is a great combo,” Kimi raved. “The lemon adds to its very unique flavor. The coconut taste was delicious.”

The laaing with chips (left) and pork lumpia (right).

For our main courses, Kimi ordered the mushroom sisig, a vegetarian take on the Filipino classic pork sisig. An assortment of diced mushrooms and a mix of chickpeas was placed on our table, alongside a large scoop of plain rice, as the intensity of onions and peppers did not subside quickly. 

Kimi took notes, “The mushrooms were well-cooked and not overly chewy. It’s a very savory fish.”

To my surprise, family-sized lechon was on the dinner menu. Of all Filipino dishes in existence, this was my favorite. It is served at every thanksgiving my family hosts, with elated cousins, aunts, uncles, and godparents devouring handfuls of rice and pork, with banana leaves replacing typical ceramic dinnerware. A wave of an unfamiliar emotion came over me as it was brought out on a woven plate. The incredibly fatty, tender, juicy chunks of pork melted in my mouth, perfected by the sweetness of mang tomas, a thick, brown sauce made especially for lechon. 

The beautiful displays of mushroom sisig and pork lechon.

Our last dishes were a portion of ube ice cream and a mango float. The smooth bright-purple ice cream was topped with little slivers of white jelly and a sea-salt taste. I preferred this dessert, while Kimi favored the mango float. Frozen mango slices, sandwiched between two layers of mango ice cream, sat on a base of graham crackers in this final dish. To the side was a dash of cherry compote, a pleasant surprise for my evening companion. 

A seemingly petite portion of Kalye’s mango float.

“Around 7:30 they started having live music which elevated my dining experience and made the space more fun. The waitress was very informed when asked questions on the menu and the service was quick,” she reviewed. “Overall my experience was very positive and I’d love to go back for one of their Sunday drag brunches.”

I had two major takeaways from the night: a.) this small hidden gem of a restaurant can be one of the safe havens that I can look to when I am in need of familiar language, food, and faces b.) the restaurant was filled with people of all ethnic backgrounds and was enjoyable for anyone who was willing to try new foods, music, and atmosphere. Thankfully, Kalye (Rivington St.) has partnered with Campus Clipper to give students 20% off when they show their valid student ID and the coupon below.

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Just Around the Corner: DH Noodle

Thursday, December 26th, 2024

DH Noodle is one of those spots that feels like a warm hug as soon as you walk in. The wooden tables, soft lighting, and cozy vibe make it the perfect escape from a busy day. Whether you’re catching up with friends or just looking for a quiet moment, the welcoming atmosphere and incredible food make it hard to leave.

The scallion pancakes are a game-changer—crispy, flaky, and packed with flavor. Pair them with one of their refreshing boba teas, and you’ve got the perfect combo. The menu has something for everyone, from steaming noodle soups to small plates you’ll want to share (or not). Plus, they’re always adding new items, so there’s always a good excuse to come back.

DH Noodle is offering college students a discount when they present the Campus Clipper coupon and their valid student ID.

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Same Fears, Different Outlook

Saturday, November 16th, 2024

I’m in my first semester of Senior year now, and listen— I’m still afraid of the dining hall. Kind of. It’s big, busy, and bright. It’s a space that still feels uncomfortable for me to enter some days. During my first three years of college, when I relied on the dining hall for meals because I lived on-campus, it was sort of like exposure therapy going in and out of that place at least twice a day. Now it takes more of an effort. The dining hall is unfamiliar again. But I push through that, and I go in anyway because I know I can. Because it’s not actually that bad once I get in there and sit down. 

A few months into this semester, I’ve managed to find a rhythm. Every Monday I meet some friends for coffee, Wednesday we get dinner, Thursday we hang out after class. I try to make time for work, for the gym, for my school work, for my creative endeavors, and for my friends. All with the help of Google Calendar, of course. Every semester is a bit different. I meet new groups of people, and I experience new things. When I first started college I was 18, and now I can go out to bars on the weekends with those same friends I had back then. Things have changed, and so have I. I spend my time with people I’m comfortable around, and people who make me feel heard. Gone are the days where I forced myself to be around people who don’t respect me or my boundaries, the days where I overextended my social battery and pushed myself past the limit of what I was able to do. 

my favorite area to walk around in the morning before class, Beacon Hill. There’s a new cat cafe that just opened up!

What I’ve learned (and am still learning) in my time at school is the importance of communication—clear, concise communication. Specifically, drawing lines when needed. It can be especially difficult, because even when there’s plenty of “how-to-set-boundaries” guides online and in books, ultimately it depends on every person involved. I mean, everyone thinks differently, right? But being able to effectively communicate your boundaries is an essential part of friendship, and it’s something I’m still learning to do. Saying “yes” even when you’re scared can be so important, but sometimes saying ‘yes’ to everything can cause issues. The importance of “no” is just as crucial in friendships. Knowing yourself, your boundaries, your energy and comfort levels—staying aware of what you need will no-doubt help your relationships with other people— can be what makes the difference in a meaningful relationship. Real friends won’t expect you to bend backwards at their every beck and call. Saying “yes” to everything is just as problematic as the opposite—something else I learned in my first years at college. There’s a certain balance that’s different for everyone, but by staying in tune with your body and mind, you’ll be able to figure out what works for you. 

Human connections are the most important aspect of life. Even the most antisocial of us are social creatures. Our experiences, how we behave, and how we perceive the world are impacted by who we spend our time around. I’m trying to find the people I’ll spend the rest of it with, the people who make me feel like ‘me.’ I’m heading off into the so-called “real world” in just a few short months. I hear those first few months after college are going to be the “worst of my life,” which of course leaves me trembling in fear. But here’s the thing: sure people say it will be that, but I don’t think it has to be. There’s no point in my life I have to be at right now, or even next June or July—there’s no clear-cut blueprint for the point I’m supposed to be in my life by then. Or ever, really. I might feel lost, I mean, I feel lost now, months before I walk the stage at commencement. But taking a step back, I have to remind myself of what really matters. Life is about the relationships I form in my life, and the people I spend my time around. I think that’s true, at least. I’m only 22, I may need a few more years to figure out the meaning of life. But now I know that I’m capable of overcoming my fears, even if it takes a while. My outlook has changed and is still changing.


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By: Meg Carey

Meg Carey is studying creative writing and publishing at Emerson College in Boston. They love reading and writing sci-fi, horror, and romance (bonus points if it’s all three), as well as poetry. You can find them on instagram @megcareywrites, and substack @megcarey.


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Off-Campus and Out-of-Touch

Monday, November 4th, 2024

To be honest, I’m tired of always being in a transition phase. I’ve been moving from place-to-place, never fully settling down, since starting college. I think it’s something I’ll miss in the future when I feel stagnant, but these last few years I’ve been between school and home and back to school again. It’s gotten pretty exhausting. It’s a different room every year, with different roommates, working a different job depending on where I am. It often feels like as soon as I get a sense of routine, something has to throw it out-of-wack. This year is no different— yet again, I find myself in a different place, trying to figure it all out. 

I just recently moved into an apartment, and I’ve been commuting to school for the first time. I’d never firsthand dealt with the technicalities behind apartment renting, so that was a huge learning curve itself, as was figuring out the wifi (and whatever the heck a modem is), gas, electricity, etc. 

 It’s been a huge adjustment commuting to school, since I have to account for different train times and slow areas on the tracks. Even weeks into the semester, I wind up cutting it a bit closer than I intend to when on my way to class. I’m used to being so close to campus I’m practically able to get to class from my bed in minutes. It’s taking time management skills, which I’m still building up. 

I feel like I’m really learning what it means to be “on my own.” Everything is changing, and I’m about to face the most daunting transition phase of my whole life next Spring—graduating college. 

Local cat tests out the climb-ability of our new apartment

But for right now, I’m trying to enjoy it. If I think too much about what happens afterward, I won’t be able to stand it. “Where will I live?” “Who will I live with?” “Where will I be working?” They’re all questions on the forefront of my mind, and other peoples’ too—just this last weekend I went home for my birthday and got asked all sorts of questions about my plans post-graduation. But I’ve come to realize I can take things a bit more slowly, going step-by-step. I can enjoy my last year of college and spend time with the people I love, while keeping my future in the back of my mind.

There’s this book my coworker recommended to me called ‘The Art of Now” by Eckhard Tolle. In the book he talks a lot about living in the moment and “letting the universe work for you.” I’ve never given “the universe” much thought, but there’s a lot of really uplifting sentiments that I got from reading the book—and I’m not usually a huge nonfiction fan. It inspired me to make an active effort to stay in the moment, and to stay centered in the present even while applying for internships and jobs in the future. Making sure I see the people I care about, I let my creativity out, and I spend my time mentally relaxing and doing things I enjoy— all while maintaining my grades and doing all my work on-time. It’s definitely no easy feat, but most worthwhile things aren’t easy. I’m trying, at the very least.

Living off-campus definitely makes things feel a bit more distant. Everything and everyone used to feel so close. I’ve noticed it’s taking more effort to stay in touch with friends; it feels like everything’s  a bit out of my reach. Still, part of “staying in the moment” to me is staying in contact with people who help me enjoy the moment, like my friends, my girlfriend—the relationships that matter to me. 

Things seem to be going by so fast and I’m trying not to forget to enjoy it—even if there’s a lot of new, stressful aspects of my life, and even if I’m not completely sure where I’ll be this time next year. All I can do is be the best “me” now, so I can be the best “me” a year from now, for myself and everyone around me. 


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By: Meg Carey

Meg Carey is studying creative writing and publishing at Emerson College in Boston. They love reading and writing sci-fi, horror, and romance (bonus points if it’s all three), as well as poetry. You can find them on instagram @megcareywrites, and substack @megcarey.


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Abroad, Inside, and Out

Friday, October 25th, 2024

Ever since I started at college, I’d had my heart set on this one study abroad program offered. Basically, Emerson owns a castle in Limburg, the Netherlands, where students live and study for a semester. It’s just as strange and simultaneously magical as you’d imagine. 

So naturally I applied my Sophomore year for the Spring semester my Junior year. It was far enough ahead that I told myself I could worry about it when it got closer to the time—it was a whole year away, after all! I had plenty of time to figure it out.

But when I got the list of people attending, I read through it and didn’t know a single name, which filled me with utter, unbridled dread. I’d be doing a semester with strangers– completely starting over and far from any familiarity I had with school back in Boston. The fall before I left I started thinking about dropping out. The thought of boarding a plane with a bunch of strangers sent this paralyzing fear through me, and I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to deal with it all. But I was also thinking I’d never be able to do this again in my life. It was a one-time opportunity.

So I decided to go through with it, because I knew I’d be pissed at myself if I didn’t. How could I let my anxiety win over me like that, and steal away yet another opportunity presented to me? 

The view from my room in Well, the Netherlands

The first week abroad was just like orientation Freshman year—everyone rushing to make friends. A lot of people knew each other already too, and had established dynamics—both good and bad ones. It’s a small liberal arts college, you can imagine how it is.

 I decided this time I’d hang back a bit. I’d take it a bit slower, even if that meant I wasn’t as “successful” as I wanted to be in making friends. 

I realized while over there that I needed to stop thinking about other people and focus on myself. So that’s what I did. Those first few weeks I was in the library by myself until 2 or 3 in the morning every day. I sat there until the night watch came through and asked me to turn off the lights when I was done. For some reason, those are the memories that stick with me after coming home. 

 I decided in that first week that if I had one friend who I could eat some meals with and go on some trips with, that was enough. And I had made one, someone I sat next to on the plane. As time went on, I naturally found more people. It’s easier to find friends who suit you when you aren’t desperately seeking them out, bending over backwards to try and make them like you. It’s better to take things at your own pace.

From my trip to Amsterdam

In short, these three months abroad were the most fun of my life. Equally as stressful, too, but I’d go back and do it again in a heartbeat. The way you learn about yourself in unfamiliar situations and locations is something that you just have to experience (even if it’s not studying abroad, just going elsewhere and seeing other ways of living—it’s so important). Even if moving around and changing scenes feels overwhelming at times, pushing through that initial fear can be the most rewarding thing in the world. You just have to be wary of your limits and listen to yourself, your body, and your brain. That’s also something I learned while I was abroad. To know when to back out. When my spoons get too full. When to be brave and say “I quit, this is too much for me right now.” It’s a fine line that I’m learning to walk.


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By: Meg Carey

Meg Carey is studying creative writing and publishing at Emerson College in Boston. They love reading and writing sci-fi, horror, and romance (bonus points if it’s all three), as well as poetry. You can find them on instagram @megcareywrites, and substack @megcarey.


For over 20 years, the Campus Clipper has been offering awesome student discounts in NYC,  from the East Side to Greenwich Village. Along with inspiration, the company offers students a special coupon booklet and the Official Student Guide, which encourages them to discover new places in the city and save money on food, clothing, and services.  

At the Campus Clipper, not only do we help our interns learn new skills, make money, and create wonderful e-books, we give them a platform to teach others. Check our website for more student savings and watch our YouTube video showing off some of New York City’s finest students during the Welcome Week of 2015.

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