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The Ups and Downs of Cross Country Friendships

Tuesday, October 6th, 2026

As a recent New York resident, I’ve had to say goodbye to a lot of really good friends, at least in the physical sense. Some of my friends live in Texas, others still in Wisconsin where I grew up, and some in Illinois and Minnesota. Though I’ve found some amazing people in the city and continue to grow my friendships at school, there are so many people I’ve met throughout my time in the midwest who’ve shaped the person I am today, and with whom I’ll always stay in touch.

Leaving for school can often mean parting ways with some of our closest friends, and it can be hard to stay in touch in such a big city. New York can be especially overwhelming and take up a lot of our energy, and it can be hard to stay in touch during such a busy time in our lives. I’ve definitely been noticing this in my own life these past few months since moving to New York, and though I wish I could say it’s been easy balancing schoolwork with long distance friendships, it’s not always that simple. From battling timezones to work schedules, it can be hard to find the time to really converse and connect with our people. Just recently I’ve started learning how to balance my long distance friendships as well as my life in the city, and it’s proved to be incredibly rewarding and important to both my well-being and my relationships. 

One of the most successful ways I’ve been able to stay connected is to plan ahead, especially when it comes to phone calls and FaceTimes. Every week, I find time to talk on the phone and really catch up with my friends. I’ve found it’s really important to find time to actually talk, rather than just text, and just hearing a friend’s voice can be really rewarding after a long week of classes. It may not be the same time every week, but working these calls into your schedule can be really crucial to keeping those friendships alive. Recently, I’ve been mapping out my week in order to create a better work-life balance and plan some time to socialize with friends, and honestly it’s really helped my mental health. 

I’ve also found that media can be a great way to bring people together. For example, my friends and I decided to start a book club in order to stay connected through our love of reading! Each month, we decide on a new book to read, and just knowing that I’ll be able to talk about something I love with the people I love on a regular basis helps me keep going during a stressful week. We’ve also planned virtual movie nights and watch parties for some of our favorite shows! It can be hard when you and your friends are living such different lives in different parts of the country, but connecting over a shared passion can be one of the best ways to stay in touch.

Finally, one of the easiest things that has helped me stay connected is celebrating the small things. Whether it be getting a good grade on my latest assignment or getting accepted to an internship, just sending your friends a quick text to update them can help create this sense of connectedness and comradery, even from afar. In a city as busy as New York, we don’t always have time to call, and though of course texting is not the same, just giving your friends a quick update can be incredibly rewarding and spark great conversation! Long distance friendships definitely come with their own struggles, but I’ve found that these hardships can make our relationships even stronger in the long run.


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By Katrina Kallas

Katrina Kallas is a first-year graduate student at The New School, studying creative writing with a concentration in fiction. Originally from Wisconsin, they enjoy writing about relationships, friendships, and personal values. In their free time, they write fictional stories on a variety of topics and hope to publish a novel after they graduate. 


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Finding Friends in the City: Notes from an NYC Newcomer

Tuesday, September 29th, 2026

In a city as busy and bustling as New York, it can be incredibly difficult to find your community. You may be asking yourself, ‘how could I possibly feel lonely in a city with so many people?’, but I assure you it’s a very common and normal occurrence, especially for NYC newcomers. 

I grew up in the midwest and spent twenty-three years of my life living in Wisconsin, attending undergrad at the University of Wisconsin-Madison and staying very close to home. Simply put, I just wasn’t ready to leave. I had my community, my friends, and my family, all people whom I loved, so really what more could I ask for? But after graduating college and preparing for graduate school, I decided it was time for a fresh start, and now here I am in New York City as an MFA student! 

As students, we’re often told by staff and faculty that the best way to meet new people is to attend university events, and at first I was honestly a bit skeptical. I didn’t attend a lot of events in college, and I assumed my classes would be enough to build my community. But I took a chance the second week of classes and attended a student reading for the creative writing program at one of the local bars. I didn’t know a lot of people, and being from the midwest I felt a bit like an outsider. But I quickly realized that the hardest part – pushing myself to attend that event, to get out of my comfort zone – was over and I ended up striking up a conversation with some fellow students and talking with them for the rest of the night!

Study groups are another great way to build your community. Through my classes, I’ve been able to find people with similar goals and interests as me, and studying together can really foster a sense of comradery. Until coming to the city, I didn’t fully realize the importance of finding those people who want the same things as me, who share the same goals and aspirations. But, as we all know, NYC is filled with so many people chasing so many different dreams, and building those connections has been essential to my work and well-being, especially as someone who’s new to the city.

I think we can all agree that school can sometimes feel like a chore, even when we’re studying something we’re really passionate about. I’ve found that one of the best ways to blow off some steam is to hang out with your friends after class. This simple act has really helped me decompress after a long day, and just reflecting on the shared experience of attending class together has really brought me closer to my classmates. I even joined a group chat with my graduate program made specifically for hanging out or grabbing a drink after class, and it’s been one of the most successful ways I’ve built my community. Exchanging numbers and making group chats can be extremely advantageous when finding your people, especially in this current age of technology, and I’ve made it a point to get my classmates’ contact info as much as possible.

Moving to New York has proven to be one of the best decisions of my life, and I have my friends to thank for that. Finding your people is so crucial in such a big city, and though it can be overwhelming when starting out, I promise it’s all worth it. Every step I’ve taken to build my community has helped me learn and grow as a person, and I couldn’t have built the connections I have without putting myself out there and taking a chance.

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By Katrina Kallas

Katrina Kallas is a first-year graduate student at The New School, studying creative writing with a concentration in fiction. Originally from Wisconsin, they enjoy writing about relationships, friendships, and personal values. In their free time, they write fictional stories on a variety of topics and hope to publish a novel after they graduate. 


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On Knowing What You Really Want Out of College: An Interview with Faith

Wednesday, August 19th, 2026

College is a period of life that is greatly idealized by both incoming students and long-time graduates. For the former, it is a symbol of hope. For the latter, its memory often holds a feeling of glorious nostalgia. The general idea of college life is one that carries excitement and promises major personal growth and achievement.

But how do you know which college journey is ideal for you? To answer this question, I sought the insight of my good friend, Faith, who graduated this past May from California Lutheran University, having taken full advantage of the opportunities made available to her, and is walking away summa cum laude, an alum athlete, and a seasoned explorer.

I first asked her whether she started her freshman year with a clear outline for her four years of undergrad—as many organized and eager students do—or embraced spontaneity and determined what was worth her time and effort along the way. She shared that “[she] didn’t start college with a detailed four-year plan. [She] came in knowing that [she] wanted a good education and that [she] wanted to swim.” However, “so much of what ended up defining [her] college experience wasn’t planned.” She learned to “just say yes to different opportunities,” and this is how she went on to intern, study abroad, and do research—not knowing what research entailed or that it was even an option. 

Faith in front of the Swenson Science Center—Home of CLU’s Environmental Science Major (from her graduation Instagram post)

This same mindset, to “choose [what you’re] passionate about, excited about, or [what] truly interests you,” led her to declare both her environmental science and Spanish majors. In fact, her dad encouraged her to adopt this perspective by explaining that “there are careers in any field out there. This is a decision that is affecting the rest of your life, and you can make money in any field.” So she took his advice and ran with it by choosing to immerse herself in what she loved.

But honoring her interests wasn’t possible without sacrifice. For Faith, “one of the biggest sacrifices [she] had to make was time.” As a student athlete, “[she] had early mornings. [She] was doing over 20 hours of practice a week and was also working a part-time job about 20 hours a week, had a full-time class schedule, a club that [she] was running, and was doing research.” But “learning how to prioritize and be intentional with [her] time was one of the most valuable lessons that [she] took away,” despite having “to say ‘no’ to things that a lot of people may want out of college—like going to parties, hanging out with friends, or spending time in the dorm.” She believes that the sacrifice “was worth it because it was true to who [she is] and aligned with [her] goals.”

And when all of her responsibilities began to overwhelm her, “having people to rely on, having a support system,” anchored her to her ability to persist. Her mom, who “became what [Faith] jokingly called [her] ‘momma-pist,’” or “mom-therapist” especially helped ease her mind during stressful times while she was at school. She explained that college is “a time when you are discovering who you are, saying ‘yes’ to all of these opportunities, and challenging yourself, and you cannot go through it alone.” Even if your support system comprises one person, “asking for help sometimes is not a sign of weakness but is a way that you can keep growing and learn how to face these challenges again in the future.”

As for knowing that she needed to break away from her campus borders to have a fulfilling college experience, Faith shared that smaller schools—like the one she attended—“can feel like a social bubble, so “immersing yourself in the community and seeing the real-world applications of what you might be studying in a classroom is just as meaningful as [the on-campus] college experience.” Her off-campus barista job and ability to study abroad in Madrid for four months allowed her to find value in engaging with opportunities beyond her campus borders. She was “challenged in ways that [she] never expected,” but being “pushed out of [her] comfort zone also made [her] more independent and gave [her] confidence that [she] could adapt to unfamiliar situations” and allowed her to meet “so many people from diverse backgrounds with different cultures and different ways of life, [opening her] up to a whole new world.”

So as you try to determine which aspects of college to lean into and turn away from, keep in mind Faith’s approach to making the most of it: “Stay open and stay curious.” Be willing to give your time to unplanned opportunities, and especially those “that excite you or that interest you.” Not all detours are setbacks. For Faith, “so much of what ended up defining [her] college experience wasn’t planned.” Thanks to her time as a student, she has come to understand that “every experience is valuable, even the ones that don’t end up being the right fit.”

So embrace every adventure in your college journey because, like Faith said, “The goal isn’t to do everything. It’s to find experiences that help you grow into the person that you want to become in the future.”


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By Lauren Gascon 

Lauren Gascon studies Media, Culture, and Communication at NYU and enjoys discussing people’s relationships with each other and themselves. When she’s not on campus, you can find her café hopping, browsing bookstores, or enjoying lunch in one of New York City’s many beautiful parks.


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What it takes to build a village

Wednesday, August 12th, 2026
Photo by Alyssa Hong. A beautiful sunset in my hometown featuring a cloudy day mixed with the striking hues of orange shown by the sun making it’s descent.

Within writing each chapter, I am forced to reflect on what it means to build a community whilst forging a “home” of my very own in a foreign city. Questions about music inspire thoughts about charismatic unity through the melodic sounds of tunes and the inscriptions written in song lyrics. Gravitation pulls towards genres of high beats or slow rhythms tell you about someone’s personhood. Their favorite artist highlighting their politics and ethics. The same can be said about fashion. Expression is folded into each crease of a person’s jeans or their color palette. What cannot be said from mere words is fabricated elegantly within their own personal style; even more so in their taste. 

Every character thus far has engraved countless lessons upon my being. Monica persuades me to accept any possible opportunity from career ideas to clubs to even hobbies. She shows me what taking risks means and the rewards that come from putting my all into anything I do. Kylie reminds me that there is never not something to learn. Reminders that mistakes are a beautiful way to learn who I am are forwarded by her courage to be wrong and her doubt that she knows everything. She is immensely wise and selfless even to a fault. Irene highlights that nobody cares what others are doing. Her leap of faith into her hobbies and her sense of normalcy prompts the idea that we are all on our own journeys, impacted but not ruled by others. 

Villages require villagers; thus, finding your people may lead to unexpected incompatibilities and drama. Friendships can be messy, but with clear goals and desires of what type of relationships you seek to have can provide you with the most meaningful, enriching memories. I must argue that an essential mindset must be to grow with your friends. Stagnancy and mundanity are two different things. The most mundane friendships contain a comfort in silence and appreciation of one another’s energy. Stagnancy, however, can only keep you both in a constant cycle of nothingness. No lessons being learned and oftentimes a credulous amount of toxicity and unhappiness. If you look to grow from your friends, you certainly will. 

I look to others for their character, humor, etc.  — truly all things that I might have never realized about myself. I also look at my relations to others. What does their background have to do with what they’ve experienced and how does that experience reflect their treatment of others and myself? 

Although building a community may seem like a hassle which can be easily solved by connecting in each other’s likes or interests, forging something that lasts and fulfills the soul — the real creation of “home” or homemaking only begins when you venture through spending time together and learning about who you both are. College is a playground where kids are running around and finding out the best ways to play while adjusting to their reality of independence and autonomy. Once you observe and listen, you realize that nobody knows anything nor cares. You free your mind of anxiousness and materialize the idea that it is completely okay to not have anything figured out because nobody ever does. It is adaptation and resilience that allow you the chance to make things go in your favor. 

A village brings that together. When every person can simply accept one another (with respect to their personhood), it becomes easier to look at differences as lessons to learn and curious questions to ask. Then, you can grow to appreciate each person’s interests, likes, dislikes, politics, virtues, etc. and learn from one another because ultimately you realize you both are not all that different. 


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By Alyssa Hong

Alyssa Hong is a rising Junior at Barnard College, studying Political Science with a minor in English. As a first-generation, low-income student, she writes about moving across the country for college and its adjustments. She utilizes entertainment, wellness/health/food, and fashion/beauty as methods to making new connections with others whilst always learning.


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Music is everything

Tuesday, July 28th, 2026
Photo by Alyssa Hong. Image of Kylie and I’s blend on Spotify.

Tuning in, the radio hums a popular song. Each grainy interruption from the radio host acts as a transition from pop to rock to country. My groggy eyes blinked open from sheer will and shutting from exhaustion. The heat blowing into my arms warms my body to the subtle sounds of the radio. Every melody and word combines into a beautiful hug, coating my ears and putting my worries to ease. 

Every morning before school was the exact same for thirteen years. Maybe, this was where my love for music came from. More accurately, it is the rhythm that soothes my soul, the calm eeriness from the silence cut by beats, or the lyrics that made me feel that I was less alone. 

When moving to college, this same activity took a new form. Walking the streets of New York City without music is physically impossible. Discovering new artists or albums to fill every single situation became a way to cope, but more than anything, it allowed me to meet new people and connect with them. 

Running errands with Kylie officiated a ritual of listening to the same song. We shared airpods or synced our songs if I was wearing headphones. The rain fell so violently as we ran around to the most loud hiphop. When frolicking through central park, we listened to a gentle indie pop. Each event had its own distinct song choices.

Eventually, we found common ground. Knocking on my dorm room door, she burst into my room and took over the aux. My Alexa became a victim to the torturous clutches of Billie Eilish as we took turns interpretive dancing. Flinging around my arms and legs to the world’s saddest music ever will never not amuse my memories. I made hand movements to mimic the song’s lyrics; thus, each song became uniquely ours. Kylie dropped to her knees, spun in a circle, and window-wipered her arms to create the illusion of heartbreak. Every movement meant something.

Once our stomachs were tight from our hysterical laughing, we took a rest to discuss what type of genres we enjoyed. From that I learned so much about Kylie that I probably would have never known. That she had spent her childhood in England and that she was from LA. Her range of listening highlights how entirely open-minded she is, never discriminating between the most unexpected combination of artists like Playboi Carti and Mitski.

Usually when people mention that they listen to a bit of everything, they lie because they always gravitate to one genre and listen to one song from each genre. However, for Kylie, she truly listens to the good, terrible, and mediocre music all at once without discrimination. 

Her music taste enabled a connection over indie and alternative music artists like The Marias, Clairo, Steve Lacy, and many more. It also taught me that she is truly a curious person in nature from some of her more unpopular favorites. 

Kylie is only one of many that I have connected and learned about from music. 

Music can be a form of expression too: when people take care of their appearances, they often reflect the type of music in their style choices. On my campus, it is clear who listens to things like Deftones or conversely Sabrina Carpenter. Not all appearances show music taste, however, it can be an easy basis to contemplate their likes or dislikes. 

Since knowing that Kylie loves music and goes to concerts, we’ve planned and executed multiple concerts or festivals together. For one, taking the F-train towards Forest Hill Stadium. Geared in our concert attire and handheld fans, we made it to the All Things Go music festival to see the acts (primarily, The Marias and Clairo). All night dancing, singing, and just enjoying the music together made me realize how music is everything. 

It connects all of us, relates to all of us. From genre to song to lyric, even the slightest detail can allow friendships to be made and strengthened. You can learn so much from what artists or genres the people around you listen to. Music reveals the soul; it is everything.


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By Alyssa Hong

Alyssa Hong is a rising Junior at Barnard College, studying Political Science with a minor in English. As a first-generation, low-income student, she writes about moving across the country for college and its adjustments. She utilizes entertainment, wellness/health/food, and fashion/beauty as methods to making new connections with others whilst always learning.


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Sweet Suite: College Dinners

Tuesday, July 21st, 2026

At the end of Freshman year, the uncertainty brewed. As housing groups were made, betrayed, and dissolved, I had not made friends with many that I would have been comfortable housing with so I decided on the alternative: entering the automatic random placement where the school would place me into an open leftover spot. My plan continued until one of my best college friends, Monica, said that there was an open spot in her group and I would be guaranteed a single. Being in a single my first year was lucky, but being in a single again seemed like my lucky fortune was in order. Everything seemed perfect, yet I was uncertain because I knew nothing about the people I was to live with for the next year. 

I only briefly met my suitemates during one housing group meeting, but not nearly enough to know if I would likely get along with or be friends with all of them. Coping, I told myself that my room would be my safe haven for sleep and that I might rarely ever see them anyway. That was until I moved in. 

Suddenly, these people I had never known before invited me to their birthdays and hangouts. Their efforts to include me were never in vain as I always tried my best to show up and spend more time with them. I learned so much about these people through their living habits, hobbies, interests, etc. Each person was either introverted or extroverted, interested in K-pop or anime (or both), or were an early riser or a night owl. Their habits contributed to learning who they were as people, and our dining table became a staple place for conversation. 

At the table, we all hovered over our laptops and made idle chit chat. Soon, we played games here. Eventually, we hosted dinners here. 

Respect, courtesy, and friendship — the people I had been so overcome with anxiety to live with were some of the sweetest peers known to mankind; thus, we called ourselves ‘sweet suite’. As school started, we began to do what college students do: neglect social life, neglect our academics, neglect our health, or two of the three. Whenever we did see each other, it was the usual question of:

“How was your day?” 

The answer oftentimes was a combination of busy, tired, and stressed with any variable of academic work, career pressure, and emotional turmoil; yet, venting to one another got all of us through some of the roughest days. But as a small token of thanks to the kind people that let me into their circle, I decided to help host a thanksgiving dinner alongside Monica. 

Photo by Alyssa Hong. Sweet Suite’s Thanksgiving dinner set up at the table with fairy lights and plate settings.

Running to Trader Joes in the early morning, we went through the aisles looking for items on our grocery list. Cheeses, vegetables, and protein choices to reflect everyone’s dietary restrictions. Then Monica and I began working on the beef stew in the cramped kitchen that was uniquely ours. 

In a steel pot, Monica began cooking the beef until tender and creating an aromatic stew that filled the suite with a sweet, yet savory scent. Chopping away, my hands were busy making the ratatouille by thinly cutting the veggies and placing them neatly in a spiral against the glass container. Our vision came to life as our suitemates chipped in by putting together the salad and peeling pearl onions. 

Sweat on our foreheads, yet we were victorious. Thanksgiving dinner emerged after hours of our hard dedication and sore hands. Faint warm lights lit the table, our nametags marking our designated seats, and our plates of food waiting to jump straight into our stomachs. Around this table, we joyously discussed our plans for the upcoming break, where we would be, and what we were thankful for. Smiles erased the memory of our worst days throughout the semester, replacing them with the warmth of each other all in the same space. 

Photo by Alyssa Hong. Our homemade ratatouille after it came out of the oven.

Feeling full, I realized that my being was full of gratitude for the connections I fostered and everything I learned from the uncertainty I originally felt to the journey of friendship I ended with. With each day I lived in this suite, I learned something new about each and every person that I lived with. Something about their interests, religion, hobbies, philosophies, politics, you name it. Our little dinners, conversations, and game nights ignited a new found appreciation for our differences and similarities that all led us to the same place, at the same time. 

Thus, thankful cannot fully describe that sweet suite has left me with. 


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By Alyssa Hong

Alyssa Hong is a rising Junior at Barnard College, studying Political Science with a minor in English. As a first-generation, low-income student, she writes about moving across the country for college and its adjustments. She utilizes entertainment, wellness/health/food, and fashion/beauty as methods to making new connections with others whilst always learning.


For over 25 years, the Campus Clipper has helped college students in New York City—and later in Boston and Philadelphia—save money and succeed in city life. We offer a digital coupon booklet with discounts on food, clothing, and services, plus an Official Student Guidebook with real advice on how to navigate college life in a big city. Our internship program lets students build skills, earn money, and publish their own e-books. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @CampusClipper, and sign up for our newsletter to get deals straight to your inbox. To access the digital coupons, scan the QR code on our printed card—available in dorms, student centers, and around campus.

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The Value in It All: An Interview with Grace

Thursday, July 16th, 2026

A major part of growing older and becoming your own person is developing your own values and witnessing them transform over time. But while in college, one of the major challenges you may face is understanding what your guiding beliefs are and how to respond when they are challenged. No matter your background, once you find yourself separated from your home community—regardless of whether that’s by distance or by atmosphere—you’ll have to decide: According to which principles do you intend to live your life?

To help other “becoming” individuals reflect on how to determine which values are truly their own, I spoke with my friend Grace, a rising junior at California Baptist University who is as intrigued by discussions on belief as she is devoted to her own.

Grace and I grabbing coffee together in our hometown

She described the core principles that guide her life. The first she named “Optimism” and expanded, saying, “I like to think that I try to find the best in every situation and every person I come across…I think life is more enjoyable for you and for those around you when you choose to work through hardships with a little hope.”

She shared the verse 1 Corinthians 13:3-7, “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” Grace elaborated on how she aims to align her interpersonal approach with this verse, saying, “I don’t do any of these things perfectly, but I think it’s important to remember when we meet people… Seeing the best in people not only gives me a brighter outlook on life but can also help someone to know that someone else believes in them and wants them to be good… We should hope that tomorrow we can all be a little bit better than yesterday.”

Secondly, she mentioned minding this mantra: “Life is what you make of it.” She discovered its prevalence in her life through a comparison of her high school and college sophomore years. She explained, “My sophomore year of high school was very difficult… Coming into my sophomore year of college… Something about “sophomore” held a looming gloom about it.” But she remembered her mantra, and despite still experiencing a lot of difficulty, she realized that “the difference between high school and college was gaining the mindset that every experience holds something that we can benefit from.”

Sharing how her principles influence her perspective on the college experience, she illustrated the significance of paying attention to the people around you. She shared that “coming into college [she] kept to herself. Then, [she] met someone who just talked to everybody… And every time, without fail, that stranger walked away feeling so special, cared about, and heard… [She] saw how happy it made other people and how happy it made him.” So she adopted this particular interest in others and described it as “one of the best decisions [she] makes every day.” She learned to look beyond her academic focuses because “intentionally loving people doesn’t take away from [her] scholastics.”

To touch on areas that may be more difficult for students to navigate, I asked Grace to walk me through how she aligns her time with her beliefs. She explained that it’s about having a clear perspective of one’s values. For Grace, “her faith is first, so no matter what the day holds or how late it is, she makes sure it gets the time it deserves.” Then, she prioritizes spending time with other people and has found “having one-on-ones in coffee shops to be one of [her] favorite things to do ever.” Despite her fears that there may be awkwardness or that she may not even see the other person again, “[she] has never regretted it.”

As for standing by her convictions, Grace has come to “love putting [herself] in positions where [she] gets to listen to people [she] disagrees with.” She explained, “I’m very confident in what I believe, and so are other people, and I want to know why.” 

Of course, on the other hand, there’s the pressure to conform when it feels like you’re not on the same mental, emotional, or spiritual page as your peers. But Grace remembers that “when the courage for [her] convictions is from God, they are at their strongest.” She knows that “avoiding conforming isn’t easy, and [she] fails all the time…[but] something that gives [her] courage is that Jesus completely understands [her], always…[She] fails, and He picks [her] up and lets [her] try again and again.”

So regardless of your specific faith, spiritual, philosophical, or ideological bearing, if you’re looking to live more in tune with your convictions, take Grace’s advice. First, “decide what your values are” and determine their source. “Then, think: How can I put this into action? And do it.”


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By Lauren Gascon 

Lauren Gascon studies Media, Culture, and Communication at NYU and enjoys discussing people’s relationships with each other and themselves. When she’s not on campus, you can find her café hopping, browsing bookstores, or enjoying lunch in one of New York City’s many beautiful parks.


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Wandering Bookstores

Tuesday, July 14th, 2026
Photo by Alyssa Hong. This picture is of the used/rare book store in the Upper West Side!

Hands brushing the pages of books, I am perusing the discounted books on the cart outside the store one by one. Sunshine lights up the pages, wilting the older novels while guiding my eyes towards my next adventure. Thin edges are pinched by my fingers gliding to the next page. Bookstores are my favorite venture. 

We are in Soho — Monica and I had a great Thai lunch at Fish Cheeks, our favorite restaurant, and soon wandered the streets with our stomachs filled. As we exit Bond Street, we wander towards Prince Street to hit our most favorite bookstore: McNally Jackson. Opening the heavy glass door, our eyes flash to rows filled with books of many genres and stories. I look at her, she looks at me, and we lose each other in an instant. 

In the very front are the most popular books, I begin my quest here. Names I have heard before, some I have not, pique my interest in art, literature, philosophies, etc. Stories of immigrants hold my sight longer than the rest. Most of all, my horrible habit from childhood continues to dictate my adulthood: judging books by their cover. If the cover is not what I deem pretty, I will not even think about picking it up. Even in my college life, I have perpetuated this routine. So while I walk towards the center aisle of popular books looking for the aesthetically pleasing covers, Monica is browsing all the economics, math, and psychology books.

Our personalities and interests take form in our choices very clearly. She is highly analytical whereas I am very hypothetical. I have learned her focus on consumers, business markets, and all the in-betweens. She picks up books about game theory, talks about her future in finance, and shows up to all the networking events. I have learned to understand how she thinks. She uses her calculator to check prices and find the best deals. Her choices in which books she chooses shows it all. While these genres or types of books are often the ones I see her sitting down to read, sometimes she partakes in mystery. Problem solving is like second-nature to her. 

Finding the bench in the cooking section, Monica is, yet again, reading a consumer psychology book. I am holding a James Baldwin book, debating on my purchase. The lights are hitting her silhouette like a perfect picture — legs crossed, head planted in the book, and eyes following each line. With each step towards her, my mind cannot decide to interrupt her thinking or to let her carry on while I make another round throughout the store. Ultimately, I sat down next to her and opened the book to start reading. 

Here we are reading in McNally’s. It is a perfect day. Our stomachs full of delicious food to keep us fueled for the next day, the sky so clear, and us diving into our literature choices. Unbeknownst to us, three hours go by. Our ignorance to the time is blissful. We forget for a couple hours of the concerns that bother us back to reality. We travel into an alternate fictional reality that captures us for the day. 

Only when the sun begins to set do we realize how we lost track of time. Monica is tapping my book, only enough to gain my attention and not enough to startle me. Our eyes met; I know our time has come. Closing our books, I inquire about her book. 

“Is it any good? Are you gonna buy it?” 

“Yeah, it’s about consumer psychology. It tells me a lot about what people think when they are purchasing things and how it reflects in the markets.” 

Most of the time it is not as simple as this, but every time I learn something new from her about her interests. Sometimes I have no clue what she is talking about despite her dumbed down explanation. Never do I not learn something and connect with her in a new topic. 

If you ever need a stroll, wander in a bookstore — your next venture awaits you. Most of all, take a friend because you will have something to connect about and learn more about. You can learn so much about a person by discussing the type of literature they read or don’t read.


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By Alyssa Hong

Alyssa Hong is a rising Junior at Barnard College, studying Political Science with a minor in English. As a first-generation, low-income student, she writes about moving across the country for college and its adjustments. She utilizes entertainment, wellness/health/food, and fashion/beauty as methods to making new connections with others whilst always learning.


For over 25 years, the Campus Clipper has helped college students in New York City—and later in Boston and Philadelphia—save money and succeed in city life. We offer a digital coupon booklet with discounts on food, clothing, and services, plus an Official Student Guidebook with real advice on how to navigate college life in a big city. Our internship program lets students build skills, earn money, and publish their own e-books. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @CampusClipper, and sign up for our newsletter to get deals straight to your inbox. To access the digital coupons, scan the QR code on our printed card—available in dorms, student centers, and around campus.

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Eyeliner, Mascara, and Everything in Between

Monday, July 6th, 2026

The women’s college experience is defined by the expressive fashion, make-up, and hair that displays each girl’s personality. On campus, a European or Tuscan style uniquely signifies an east coast aesthetic that can only be attained by the Californian girls who have dreamed their whole lives of living in the big New York City. Others carry an alternative taste with heavy black eyeliner, vibrant hair colors, and many piercings to outwardly show their political philosophies. This is one thing that women all relate to: aesthetics. 

In the H-Mart by Columbia University is H-Art and near that is Teso-Life which are stores that cater to and carry primarily Asian brands for the high population of international Asian students at the institution. Recollecting a cloudy day, Ky and I ran out of makeup that we usually use. I had actually been on the lookout for a mascara strong enough to hold my stubborn lashes up all day long — something to withstand a thunderstorm. Browsing through the selection, I inquire about the mascara that Ky uses since she too knows the struggle of having pin-straight Asian lashes. 

“What do you use?” “I use the Clio one.” This is a Korean brand I was familiar with due to my extensive research late last night where I should have been sleeping. Many other girls raved about it on TikTok but I have seen it on Ky’s counter, in my peers’ makeup pouches, and in catalogs of HerCampus magazine of my school. This mascara is a connection for many of the Asian girls on our campus because we all have the similar struggle of finding just the right mascara to hold our impossible eyelashes up. 

Our network starts with, “What lippie is that? What’s your lip combo? What lash clusters are those?” 

Very often you can imagine someone’s personality through their makeup. Full glam beats signify people who take the time to paint the picture of who they are in the dimmest hours of the early morning. Messy mascara and smudgy eyeliner might signal a late start to the day or a message that says, “Do not talk to me. I do not want to talk.”  The choice of makeup reflects who we are to each other, but it also opens the door to connecting about our decisions. 

Inquiries into certain products or compliments in passing initiate conversations which lead to friendship. Helping others with their makeup choices is a universal form for connection that is not exclusive to women but most evident in women-filled spaces. Admiration for fun colors, doing each others’ makeup, and getting ready together can be intimate. You get to know a person’s soul in the accentuation of their eyes, lips, or nose. Connecting in the love of getting ready makes the process of makeup all that much more fun when in a room full of others who do the same but can also help you with unfamiliar techniques. 

I have often helped with eyeliner, lashes, or hair (my favorite activity). In the first few weeks of knowing my suitemates, I had one of them knock on my door quite suddenly. As an introvert, a pounding on my door was the last thing I was expecting but to my surprise my suitemate Pauline wanted to ask for my help with her eyeliner. I happily agreed since I enjoy doing other people’s makeup. This moment also allowed me to gain her trust and connect better with her by asking what type of style she was going for or if she liked how it turned out. She simply smiled back at me and said, “I knew you were the perfect person to ask!” Although I gladly helped her, I was overjoyed in feeling somewhat closer to someone I was still getting to know. 

In this way, makeup can be a source for connection and bonding. From inquiring about specific products, complimenting each other on the street, or anything else really, learning and connection is built into the practice of painting our faces. 


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By Alyssa Hong

Alyssa Hong is a rising Junior at Barnard College, studying Political Science with a minor in English. As a first-generation, low-income student, she writes about moving across the country for college and its adjustments. She utilizes entertainment, wellness/health/food, and fashion/beauty as methods to making new connections with others whilst always learning.


For over 25 years, the Campus Clipper has helped college students in New York City—and later in Boston and Philadelphia—save money and succeed in city life. We offer a digital coupon booklet with discounts on food, clothing, and services, plus an Official Student Guidebook with real advice on how to navigate college life in a big city. Our internship program lets students build skills, earn money, and publish their own e-books. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @CampusClipper, and sign up for our newsletter to get deals straight to your inbox. To access the digital coupons, scan the QR code on our printed card—available in dorms, student centers, and around campus.

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Taking Steps Early Toward Your Career: An Interview with Eric

Thursday, July 2nd, 2026

Forming your own professional identity is one of the most daunting responsibilities that you take on in your new adulthood. Even after deciding which career path to pursue, there is still the issue of taking your first steps forward, and despite all of our pre-college research and planning for our post-university careers, many of us still find ourselves paralyzed when thinking about the “right” steps or choked by self-doubt when our first jobs don’t exactly meet our expectations or fulfill us in our current stage of life. So, thinking about how to begin fleshing out your resume and introducing yourself on the professional playing field, I decided to interview my friend, Eric, a rising junior at NYU and one who, in my opinion, is smart enough to get not only an early but also a strong head start.

A public policy major and prelaw student, he shared with me that the root of his professional interests lay with his high school speech and debate team, where he participated in an event that required him to briefly familiarize himself with different policy areas—like those related to the environment, energy, healthcare, and homelessness. He discovered a desire to delve deeper into a handful of these issues and began looking for organizations in his home state of California with youth advocacy programs. His search led him to an opportunity to “[work] closely with a couple offices in the California State Legislature,” with one of their notable accomplishments being the signature and passing of an environmental law. This experience, as well as those with other advocacy groups he connected with, introduced him to legislative networking and the acts of writing and lobbying for bills.

Eric (third from left) and his friends visited the National Gallery of Art’s ice skating rink while studying at NYU’s Washington, DC campus

However, beyond high school, Eric has undertaken two internship positions—one that allowed him to interact with policy on a more political level and another more centric to the practice of law. His freshman-year Congressional internship in Washington, DC, may not have been his favorite job thus far—due to what he described as witnessing “the political division firsthand” and being delegated very few tasks. However, he still recognizes its value in that he gained heavily credible connections. For example, by maintaining “contact with [his] intern supervisors,” should he ever ask, he may be provided with very strong letters of recommendation, especially with the signature of his congressperson. He also had the chance to learn more about which specialties he isn’t interested in pursuing. Originally, he had considered work in politics but has now discerned that he’s no longer interested in the political side of policy, which he described as “an important clarification to get out of the way early on.” Meanwhile, his current internship for a small plaintiff-side law firm has allowed for him to closely observe attorneys at work, serves as motivation for his LSAT and law school preparation, and has helped to further refine his career goals.

Speaking on the coexisting external and internal motivators propelling him forward, he explained that, throughout his life, he has been advised to act according to the “natural next step,” but “when [he] got to college, [he] realized…[he doesn’t] have [his parents, mentors, or coaches]…to tell [him] what to do next.” So, he allowed his competitive nature to spur him onward. He finds that when he “[surrounds himself] with ambitious people,” the sense of “peer pressure” drives his productivity. However, he’s not blind to the limitations of this method, noting that though “comparison of yourself to others is inevitable, your way to close that comparison gap in your mind is to learn to push yourself forward every day.”

This, of course, may be perceived as a skill, but in my opinion, it is a mindset sustained by identifying one’s reason for attaining a goal—and, even now, Eric is actively investigating his own. He shared that his current internship “has taught [him] that there are problems only resolvable by legal means,” and, for him, “this is such a powerful realization as [he tries] to figure out why [he wants] to go to law school.” 

Often, we concern ourselves with wondering how to overcome tendencies to self-disqualify, which strategies to employ during the job search, or how to cope with professional rejection, but as a forward and goal-oriented thinker, Eric has adopted not only a practical but also a refreshing view on these concerns. For example, while completing applications, he keeps the stakes low by remembering that he is “only applying for undergraduate roles.” And thinking ahead at the outset of each semester, he arranges his class schedules to allow full, separate days for classes and working and establishes a routine for weekly occurrences. Mainly, he has highlighted the importance of involving oneself with a community, as his own has introduced him to opportunities, allowed him to talk through turn-downs, and reassured him that he will end up where he was always intended to be. He leaves other students who feel like they are “falling behind” with this advice: to remember that “[their] university wants [them] to succeed,” so they should delve into the insights, resources, and new initiatives their colleges and professors have to offer their areas of interest.

It seems, then, that the key to beginning to make your way in the working world truly is to, as Eric suggests, “be curious”—to be open to missing out on deeply desired opportunities, be on the lookout for more informative and potentially better aligned ones, and be less concerned about getting it “right” in favor of getting it right for you.


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By Lauren Gascon 

Lauren Gascon studies Media, Culture, and Communication at NYU and enjoys discussing people’s relationships with each other and themselves. When she’s not on campus, you can find her café hopping, browsing bookstores, or enjoying lunch in one of New York City’s many beautiful parks.


For over 25 years, the Campus Clipper has helped college students in New York City—and later in Boston and Philadelphia—save money and succeed in city life. We offer a digital coupon booklet with discounts on food, clothing, and services, plus an Official Student Guidebook with real advice on how to navigate college life in a big city. Our internship program lets students build skills, earn money, and publish their own e-books. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @CampusClipper, and sign up for our newsletter to get deals straight to your inbox. To access the digital coupons, scan the QR code on our printed card—available in dorms, student centers, and around campus.

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