After returning back to New York City, I immediately knew that I had to get back into the food scene. The summer break brought me home, where I made food for myself and saved money for the school year. I craved Japanese cuisine after a long day at orientation, which led me to a chic and clean breakfast spot, known for the fluffiest and bounciest pancakes. My new peer, Thu Le, grabbed dinner with me at Fluffy Fluffy, a spot just around the corner from New York University.
The staff tended to us as soon as we entered the cafe-like establishment, aiding us consistently throughout the night. Our drinks were served first, and quickly. Thu ordered a mango speciality latte, while I opted for the mezmerising strawberry lavender refresher. My glittery, thirst-quenching drink had an ombre effect from the sparkling water to the strawberry syrup. Sipping on this beverage as I devoured my pancakes brought me to the realization that most refreshers are entirely too sweet, while the lavender flavoring and lemon slice garnish was far from overpowering. This drink was my new favorite non-caffeinated drink in the Manhattan, perfect for a sweaty and sticky day out downtown.
“I can taste the freshness in the mango and the milk froth makes the drink so creamy!” Thu reviewed. “Definitely a nice summer sweat treat.”
Her specialty latte almost resembled a fruit smoothie, though its consistency was much thinner. The restaurant had a wide range of fruity flavors for lattes, ensuring guests have options depending on their palette.
As for the pancakes, it seemed the menu was never-ending. We had difficulty landing on a choice for our main entrees. I finally selected the hazelnut banana pancakes, and Thu picked the blueberry cheese pancakes. My platter came with a small ceramic dish of chocolate, eventually drenching my fluffy pancakes with the smooth syrup. Her plate had a beautiful tiramisu dressing, caramelized lemons, and blended blueberries.
“The blueberry cheese pancake is so fluffy. Paired with the blueberry dressing and tiramisu, the pancake is the perfect amount of sweetness,” Thu commented.
The ambiance of the small business was quiet and calm, which we both needed from the chaotic lectures we had throughout our day. I deeply appreciated the kind and funny employees who helped us ensure our meals were Instagram worthy and to our liking. The furniture was modern and chic, emitting a vibe perfectly fit to our aesthetically pleasing meal.
“Overall, I had a great experience trying out Fluffy Fluffy,” Thu concluded. “The staff were friendly and there was a relatively short wait time. The atmosphere of the restaurant was comfy and well decorated.”
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Nothing beats relaxing on a warm, sunny day at one of NYC’s vast array of parks, stopping by flea markets on the weekends, or walking along the Hudson River and taking in the breeze.
But what do you do when your weekend suddenly becomes…clouded? Rain is fairly common in New York City, with a total of 120 days on average receiving rain a year – that’s roughly every three days with some sort of precipitation. Even though rain can put a hold on your picnic plans with friends or make you feel sad or unmotivated (it definitely does for me!), don’t let the rain completely ruin your chances of having fun and enjoying other types of activities that are just as fulfilling!
One of my favorite things to do when it rains is simply step inside of a museum to explore some art. During one of my first days in the city, I decided to go to the MoMA for the first time since being in New York and I completely loved it.
Starry Night, The Persistence of Memory and Gas at the MoMA
Being able to see pieces such as Starry Night by Van Gogh, Gas by Edward Hopper, or The Persistence of Memory by Salvador Dalí felt surreal, especially since I could not remember if I had even ever been to the MoMA in the first place since I was much younger the last times I had been in New York. I love perusing around their gift shop as well and looking at the assortment of souvenirs, and I could simply spend hours reflecting and learning about art as well as see some classics like the ones I mentioned before. I also saw many interesting exhibits while I was there, including one about a “Government Approved Home Fallout Shelter/Snack Bar” that showcased a typical 1980’s home fallout shelter with a snack bar added to it, highlighting the way in which trivial aspects of life such as snacks or games are often intertwined with serious national or even international threats such as nuclear annihilation.
Although mirroring the Cold War, I would say this concept is still prevalent today when comparing to situations such as climate change or the way in which democracy feels as though it fading, and its so interesting to look back into history through art – one of my personal favorite aspects of taking your time with physical art and immersing yourself into artists’ intentions.
Images from the “Government Approved Home Fallout Shelter/Snack Bar” at the MoMA
Another thing I really enjoy doing when it rains is going to some of my favorite bakeries in the city. Having the insane sweet tooth that I have, I love going to either the East Village or Carroll Gardens in Brooklyn to some of my most frequented places. One place in the East Village I absolutely enjoy going to is Le Fournil for some canelles, croissants, or any French products such as jams and imported cookies. Their canelles are perfectly sweet and spongy, and the rum they use really highlights the pastry. I love the ambience inside and I have been meaning to also try their baguettes which look amazing. Another place in the East Village to scope out is definitely From Lucie, a cake shop also with a French owner who makes some of the best carrot cake in the city, using a family recipe and a buttercream that finally made me like frostings other than whipped cream in the United States, as it isn’t as sweet like what people bake with usually in the US and especially in the South, where I currently live. Their chocolate chip cookies are also some of the best in the city and they sell delicious iced jasmine tea which pairs wonderfully. The shop is super cute and yellow on the outside, which also makes for a perfect snapshot for an Instagram picture when you visit.
The scones at Mary O’s Soda Bread Shop Image Credits: https://www.irishstar.com/culture/food-drink/mary-os-soda-bread-recipe-34519036
While in the East Village, I would also recommend you stop by Mary O’s Irish Soda bread shop, where you can find one of the best Irish scones in the city. She makes the dough herself and is the only one who handles the recipe (passed down through her family) and serves it with delicious Irish butter and homemade blackberry jam. Truly a treat!
I would also recommend checking out Carroll Gardens in Brooklyn, a place I love to walk by on weekends and enter all the little shops and cute boutiques. One place in particular I adore is Caputo’s Bake Shop, a 5th generation Italian bakery open since 1904 and one of the oldest in NYC. I always have the sweetest woman take my order, and the variety of cookies with chocolate, apricot and raspberry jam, or Italian wedding cookies are to die for. They are a cash only establishment, but it is worth every penny to try some of the best cookies, pastries, and arguably one of the best croissants in the city as well.
Outside
Inside view of the shop
Lastly, and this may sound counterintuitive, but take a day and relax in your apartment or dorm! Even though you are in such a fun and exciting place such as New York, it is important to remember that we all need a day to simply recharge and relax in the comfort of our own space. I personally love taking rainy days to sleep in a bit, maybe clean or do laundry, or watch a comfort show or movie on my laptop. I also am a big tea lover, and I remember last year spending many rainy days lounging in sweatpants with a warm mug of whatever tea blend I felt matched the vibe. You can always also invite friends over to play card or board games, or even draw if that is something that you enjoy doing. Sometimes, we all need time to be a little “bored” to allow our minds to come up with our most creative and fun ideas. Take advantage of any day – even if it’s rainy or gloomy, as time flies faster than you know it!
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Avril Walter is a Sophomore at New York University, majoring in Drama and Cinema Studies. Coming from an Argentinian background, she loves anything related to futbol, steak, and dulce de leche. When she is not in class, she can be found playing the violin, running, cooking, or at the movie theatre.
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Part of me wishes college could last forever. The dorm sleepovers, late-night library hang-outs and chaotic coffee runs. Even the lecture halls hold a kind of charm. There’s a certain beauty to the rhythm of university life. Beyond aesthetics, it’s the final step before entering the adult world. It’s the last time you and your friends share the same calendar, the same milestones, the same breaks and goalposts.
But eventually, everything ends. And with that comes goodbye.
Friends tossing caps after graduating college. Credit: https://images
It’s not just a farewell to the school, professors and classes. You’re also saying goodbye to your friends. Some are close. Others are what I’d call “friends of convenience”. That may sound harsh, but it’s honest. These are people you see every day because your schedules align. You bond through routine, not necessarily through deep connection. And once the routine ends, so often does the friendship.
That doesn’t make those friendships less real, and this isn’t unique to college. You’ve had these kinds of relationships in high school, at jobs, summer camps and internships. You will continue to have these relationships throughout your life. Even when built around convenience, those friendships can be meaningful. They can brighten your day, get you through tough mornings or give you a reason to show up just to sit beside someone in class.
When those connections start to fade, it doesn’t mean they weren’t valuable. Sometimes life simply doesn’t allow space to maintain every relationship. And that’s okay.
Even the friendships you cherish most will shift. The closeness you feel while living in the same dorm, eating together every day and sharing every stress is hard to sustain. Eventually, you drift. Maybe not right away. Maybe you’ll live together after graduation or try to keep the same rhythm. But new jobs, routines and people will start to fill your time. The tight-knit group you once built becomes a web of separate paths. There might still be overlap, but there will also be space.
So this goodbye is just the end of a chapter. The story continues, you’re simply turning the page.
In a world where we’re all hyperconnected, physical distance isn’t the challenge it used to be. You can still meet up, plan reunions, send a message when someone crosses your mind. What you’re really saying goodbye to is the ease of it all. The built-in structure that made friendship simple. Letting go of that doesn’t mean losing the people entirely. It just means accepting change.
As I start my senior year, I’m writing this as both reflection and preparation. Part of me wants time to stop, to stay in this space a little longer. But most of me is ready for what’s next. Change is hard, but it’s also what makes life beautiful. It’s what gives this chapter meaning.
So here’s to this final year. I’m choosing to embrace it fully. To give myself grace when I mess up. To appreciate the ease while it’s still here.
Thanks for reading, and goodbye!
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By Logan O’Connor
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Living in New York City as a student can feel like being swept into a current that never slows down. There’s always something happening, somewhere to be, or something new to try. While it is exciting that the city is constantly full of endless opportunities, it can also be overwhelming.
When I first moved here almost four years ago, I felt immense pressure to do everything. I needed to try new experiences. I needed to make new friends. And I needed to discover new versions of myself. That is what I thought college was all about.
However, I’ve learned that the key to thriving as a student in the city isn’t about chasing every opportunity. It’s about being intentional with your time, protecting your peace, and remembering that only you get to decide what your version of “making the most of it” looks like.
Maybe that means saying yes to a late-night comedy show, even when you’re exhausted, just to laugh so hard you forget why you were stressed in the first place. Or waking up early to run along the East River, where the quiet water and morning light make the city feel like it’s holding its breath just for you. Maybe it means carving out time for fitness, not to chase some goal, but because puppy yoga makes you laugh when a tiny dog climbs on your mat, or because hiking through The Ramble feels like disappearing into another world where no one can email you.
Balance does not always mean equal parts, either. Some weeks might be full of adventure, like constantly exploring different villages in the city, trying new restaurants, and making new friends. Other weekends may be filled with class readings, FaceTiming family because you are homesick, or finally doing your giant load of laundry. Both are a part of being a student in New York.
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You don’t have to put everything on your plate at once. It is okay to not go out every weekend. Maybe your comfort zone is a cozy bookstore, a quiet café, or the corner of the park where you feel miles away from the city’s chaos. That can be just as valuable. At times it is hard to swallow sometimes, but you do not always have to be “doing.” You are still growing and experiencing. Even in the pauses.
So as you navigate your own path in this city, give yourself permission to go at your own pace. Let New York’s energy inspire you, but don’t let it pressure you. You don’t need to do everything, just the things that feel right for you. Learn to say no when your body or your mind needs rest. Learn to say yes when something excites you or challenges you in a good way. And most importantly, learn to listen to yourself.
This city will teach you a lot about people, art, culture, and ambition. But maybe the most important thing it will teach you is this: You don’t have to rush to belong here. You already do. Take a deep breath, find your rhythm, and move forward with one step at a time. This is your city, so live it in your way.
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By: Skylar Park
Skylar Park is a Film & TV student at NYU with a passion for storytelling and city adventures. When she’s not writing or filming, you can find her running by the East River or hunting down the coziest bookstores in New York City.
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Some step into college with a ten-year plan. They know exactly what they want to do, the internships they’re gunning for, and the career ladder they plan to climb. It’s impressive, intimidating even. But that wasn’t me. I came in with a vague idea of my interests, a few broad passions, and absolutely no clue what I wanted to pursue after graduation.
And honestly? That’s completely okay.
The early years of college are meant for exploration. It’s the time to take random electives, try clubs you never considered in high school, and let yourself lean into curiosity without pressure. Even those people who seemed so sure of their path sometimes end up pivoting dramatically. Plans change. Passions evolve. Eventually, things start to click into place, and when they do, that’s when you begin building real connections in your field.
Networking graphic via LinkedIn
Now, “networking” is a word that tends to freak people out. It sounds stiff and transactional, like you’re collecting business cards at a conference you don’t want to be at. But in college, networking often looks completely different. It can be fun, casual, and surprisingly effortless when it stems from shared experiences.
As you find your footing—through classes, clubs, on-campus jobs, or student orgs—you start to naturally gravitate toward others with similar interests. Maybe you’re working late on the layout for the student magazine and end up bonding over coffee with the other photographers. Maybe you spark a conversation with the person sitting next to you in your chemistry class or chat with students after a panel on the future of medicine. These little moments grow into friendships, and those friendships become a network before you even realize it.
That’s what happened to me. As I dove deeper into my major, I found myself surrounded by people with similar goals, challenges, and curiosities. I started getting to know professors better, not just as instructors but as mentors. Classmates became collaborators, motivators, and friends. These relationships weren’t built on LinkedIn messages or polished resumes, but they were built on late-night study sessions, group projects, and shared enthusiasm for our field.
Networking of creatives caught in action at NYU Baedeker travel magazine’s “Welcome” meeting, 2024.
These connections have been more than just social. They’ve opened doors, pushed me to grow, and reminded me that I’m not in this alone. Friends in your field can serve as both healthy competition and sources of inspiration. They’re the ones who share the application link to a niche internship, encourage you to pitch that story idea, or drag you to a lecture from a visiting professional who ends up reshaping your perspective entirely.
If you’re a creative, these friendships can be especially meaningful. They teach you how to take your talent seriously, how to value your work, and sometimes, how to monetize it. You might not intend to make your hobby as a writer or ceramicist your career, but being around others who do can push you to go beyond casual practice and explore what’s really possible.
What started for me as stress-baking during finals week eventually led to setting up a bake sale table in Washington Square Park with a couple of friends. We sold out that day and even turned a profit. Now, we’re making plans to host more pop-up sales in the future. It’s the kind of thing I never would have done on my own. But with the encouragement, creativity, and practical support of the friends I’d met through shared passions, the idea came to life. Their belief in me helped transform something small and personal into something I could be proud of.
Proof of bake sale success, as captured by my friend and fellow vendor Vimary.
So don’t stress if you don’t have it all figured out right away. The beauty of college is in the discovery– in trying new things, failing a little, and eventually finding your people. And when you do, you’ll realize that some of the most valuable career connections you’ll ever make started as simple conversations.
Your future is shaped not just by what you study, but by who you grow with along the way.
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By Logan O’Connor
Logan is a rising senior at NYU pursuing degrees in Journalism and Politics. She grew up on Long Island, but always dreamed of living in New York City. When she’s not in class or at her favorite local cafe, you can find her wandering the city (film camera in hand) or baking up a storm in her kitchen.
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People skateboarding in Washington Square Park Fountain
Jazz players at Washington Square Park
The streets are always full of noise and busy. From the people who skateboard in the fountain at Washington Square Park, to the musicians who play jazz along our morning commute. The various conversations you pick up on from the people who walk by, or maybe even the music from your noise-cancelling headphones as you explore the city. The sounds of glasses clinking, food being eaten, art being made and cars honking trying to get from one side of the city to the other. The sounds of the subways roaring under you as you walk through the blocks and explore each neighborhood or borough.
Taxi passes by 5th Avenue.
New York is never, and never will be, utterly “quiet.”
Nothing can silence the city that never sleeps.
So…what do you do when you want some peace and quiet? When you want to reflect, think, or simply relax with nature?
Luckily, there are hidden spots all throughout the city that allow you to have proximity to green spaces that are as tranquil as you can get in the city with roughly 8.3 million. Here are some of my favorite (and some I have even gatekept until now) spots that I frequent when I want to relax.
Liz Christy Garden
Flowers blooming while visiting the garden
Right off of the F-Train on the intersection between East Houston Street and 2nd Ave, you’ll find one of the cutest and in my opinion, most secluded corners of the city: Liz Christy Garden, a community endeavor founded over 50 years ago in 1974 and still thriving today.
Koi Fish swimming in the pond
Within it, you will find a beautiful koi pond with a variety of fish (and turtles!) swimming, benches and chairs to relax in, and blooming trees and other flora that disperse sunlight throughout every corner. The garden has little paths for you to walk alongside on, a composting section to fertilize the soil, and they are always looking for volunteers to help maintain and make the garden a space for everyone! I found this place one day by accident, just strolling around the East Village (which is one of my favorite neighborhoods generally).
More Koi fish I saw!
Upon finding it, I felt like I had legitimately left the city and despite still hearing the noise, it all dissipated. I felt so at ease, and even decided to sit down a bit and pay more attention to the beautiful nature all around me. This place is somewhere I go to whenever I feel stressed, bored, or want some fresh air. In the early fall or spring I also really enjoy taking in the warm sun, reading a book, journaling, or making phone calls here, as the scenery allows me to simply let go and be creative.
Pier 35
Views from Pier 35 Swings Image Credit: https://secretnyc.co/pier-35-swings-nyc/
Overlooking the Brooklyn skyline, Pier 35 is a beautiful area to walk alongside if you want a change of pace from the (in my opinion) hectic and busy Hudson River Greenway.
There are plenty of benches to walk alongside, and it’s nice to see the various boats come and go from the nearby piers. What makes this place the best, however, are the swings by the river. Although always packed with visitors, these swings are so fun to go to as a group, or simply to relax if you can snag one.
View of the Brooklyn Bridge from Pier 35
The views from the swings are also amazing, overlooking the Brooklyn Bridge, World Trade Center, and other panoramic views of the area. I’ve been here both alone and with friends, but what really makes the key difference is coming late at night.
More views of the Brooklyn Bridge
The lights around both boroughs mesmerize you, and I enjoy standing by the railing and watching the cars come and go, as well as people who are walking or cycling the bridge as well.
Tompkins Square Park
Another East Village/Alphabet City staple, Tompkins Square Park mirrors Washington Square Park but holds some more peaceful, cozy vibes. With a basketball court that’s jam-packed on sunny days, fountains, and even a playground, there is something for everyone.
Panoramic View of Tompkins Square Park Image Credit: https://theclio.com/entry/22173
I love to watch people here, watch the sunset, and see the cute dogs that people walk past with. I think the reason why this park is one I enjoy more than the bigger WSP is because of the fact it doesn’t feel as overwhelming – instead, I feel a bit more invisible.
People sunbathing, having picnics, and enjoying a sunny day at Tompkins Square Park Image Credit: https://www.tripsavvy.com/tompkins-square-park-the-complete-guide-4165940
I have often come here on what I would call “bad days,” and in hindsight I always find something that cheers me up. On the plus side, this area boasts a plethora of cafes, restaurants, and nightlife, so it’s a perfect little square that allows you to have the best of both worlds. If you are lucky, you will find a guy who writes free poems on his typewriter, one of which I got when I was feeling really down. It definitely cheered me up, and hopefully it can be a spot for you to rethink things or see a new perspective.
Snapshot of the letter that typewriter guy gave me
We live in a place, a world, a city where fast pace = life. But it doesn’t always have to be. If we simply slow down, lift our heads, and take things with a bit more calmness, we can open our eyes to what is right in front of us. Nature truly is magical.
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By Avril Walter
Avril Walter is a Sophomore at New York University, majoring in Drama and Cinema Studies. Coming from an Argentinian background, she loves anything related to futbol, steak, and dulce de leche. When she is not in class, she can be found playing the violin, running, cooking, or at the movie theatre.
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If I could recommend one thing to do during your college experience, it would be to study abroad. After spending half of high school in lockdown, travel in coming to college started to feel like a real possibility rather than just a Pinterest board of pipe dreams. Eventually, I stopped decorating my walls with vacation photos and started packing my bags.
Since there are so many positives to this experience, I’ll start with the negatives.
The hardest part of going abroad is uprooting your comfortable little life. You don’t realize how much you take for granted until you’re away from it all – being close to home, your friends, your favorite coffee shop, or even just being able to speak the same language as everyone around you. It takes adjusting, just like moving to college took adjusting. But by the end of it, you come out of the experience as a new, and likely better, version of yourself. You become more cultured, more curious, and more empathetic. More human.
The more you embrace unfamiliar people, cultures, perspectives, and experiences, the more you discover parts of yourself you didn’t even know existed.
This series is all about connections, so let’s get into the people you meet abroad.
Study abroad friends from Florence, pictured on our first group trip to Vietri Sul Mare.
My first time studying abroad was in Florence, Italy. I was lucky enough to go with one of my best friends, which made for the perfect travel buddy situation. I quickly made new friends, fell into a rhythm of exploring Western Europe, and soaked up every moment. I’m still close with the people I met in Florence. In fact, I’m probably closer to them now than we were during the actual semester. Something about traveling together either bonds… or breaks.
When you’re sharing cramped Airbnbs and catching 6 a.m. flights with a group, tensions flare. Sometimes for no reason other than everyone being tired and irritable. That’s when you learn: you need a certain disposition to just go with the flow when things don’t go as planned. Because they won’t. And if you can’t, the trip will suffer.
I’ve traveled with people I thought I could barely tolerate for more than twenty minutes. But then we came home, stepped outside of the travel bubble, and became completely different people to each other. Some friendships really do blossom after the fact, but not all connections are meant to last. Fleeting encounters, whether platonic, romantic, or something in between, are practically a hallmark of solo travel.
For my second semester abroad, I went to London. Not exactly a massive departure from New York, but it was European enough to feel like an escape. This time, I went alone. I didn’t know a single soul going in, which made it both lonely and liberating.
A walk down Tower Bridge from my semester in London.
At first, the idea of traveling solo scared me. There’s comfort in having people to help plan, navigate, and share the experience with. Going to Marrakech, Morocco, by myself pushed me to manage all aspects of the trip—budgeting, timing, safety, and decision-making. I got to spend my time exactly how I wanted, without having to consider anyone else’s needs. I could fully be me, or I could be someone completely new. How exciting!
Solo travel forced me to connect in ways I wouldn’t have otherwise. From the person in the hostel bed next to mine to the local sitting beside me in a café to strangers in markets and museums, I had some instant connections. There was Puck in Dublin and the group I met in Barcelona. I flirted with strangers, danced merengue with people I’ll never see again, and made memories that feel almost dreamlike now.
And that’s okay. Those light, transient moments are beautiful precisely because they’re temporary. They exist in their purest form: no pressure, no expectations, no future to complicate the memory.
Of course, I still try to exchange socials. Why not? We live in an age where staying in touch is easier than ever. But I also make peace with the idea that not every connection is built to last. Some people are meant to be shooting stars—bright, brief, and unforgettable.
My best friend and I in Paris, posing in front of the Notre Dame Cathedral.Catch 20% off of Di Fara’s slices when you use this coupon and show Student ID!
By Logan O’Connor
Logan is a rising senior at NYU pursuing degrees in Journalism and Politics. She grew up on Long Island, but always dreamed of living in New York City. When she’s not in class or at her favorite local cafe, you can find her wandering the city (film camera in hand) or baking up a storm in her kitchen.
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Ah, college dating life, where to begin? The lore of finding your “true love” on campus runs deep. We all hear the stories: two freshmen sit next to each other in an Intro to Psych class, and boom —they end up getting married ten years later. There’s a kind of romantic hope that college will be the time where it all clicks. High school was just practice for the real thing, a prequel to the great love story we’re meant to star in.
In reality, it’s quite brutal.
Some people fall into (and out of) relationships like it’s part of their routine. Others don’t date at all. And in between, there’s the strange, emotionally ambiguous purgatory that is the situationship: a non-committal “thing” that looks like a relationship, feels like a relationship, but is never named as one. It’s confusing and often exhausting.
In my world, the first year of college wasn’t about dating. I bounced around, got to know people, and explored different circles and sides of myself. I had no heavy intention to commit because I didn’t want to. I was curious and open and still figuring out who I even was. And on top of that, I knew I was going abroad to Florence, which added a natural time limit to any potential connection.
Studying abroad opens up an entirely new kind of dating landscape. In Florence, connections were usually fun, passionate, and short-term. People were in it for the experience, not the longevity. That in itself can be beautiful: learning how to live in the moment, how to flirt in another language, and how to appreciate someone’s presence without worrying about the future. But it also meant that any real commitment fell off the table until I was more grounded, until I was back “home.”
My friends and I roaming the streets of Florence, circa fall semester 2023.
It wasn’t until junior year that I went on what I would consider my first real date, right before I left for London, of course. (I seem to have a habit of falling into things right before I leave.) The idea of the date scared me more than I care to admit. Not because of the person, but because it was set up through Hinge, which comes with its own psychological rollercoaster. Online dating is, frankly, horrendous for forming genuine connections. It can work, but most of the time, it’s a quick spark of banter, a few days of chatting, then a ghosting from one side or the other. Tinder? Mostly hookups. Bumble? Well… it’s Bumble.
But Hinge—Hinge had potential, at least in theory. And that first date was sweet and chill and surprisingly easy. It helped set a gentle precedent: dating didn’t have to be a minefield. To this day, first dates still make me sick with stress and nerves. I overthink my outfit, my voice, and whether my smile looks right. But once I’m there, it’s rarely as bad as I imagine.
That being said, I have had bad dates. I’ve had awkward silences and forced affection. But I’ve also had wonderful ones, fun, flirty, or even completely platonic, where I left with a new friend instead of a crush. That’s the thing about dating in college: it’s unpredictable. If the hit dating show Love Island taught us something surprisingly real: sometimes you’re torn between committing to something good or holding out for something that might be great. There’s no easy answer.
Chris and Huda’s final date, Love Island Season 7. credit: Ben Symons/Peacock
The best guide, in the end, is your gut.
Don’t commit just because you feel you’re supposed to. Don’t date just to prove you can. And definitely don’t beat yourself up if you haven’t had a “serious” relationship by a certain age. Everyone moves through this process at their own pace, on their own path. Love, however it looks, finds people in different ways and at different times.
That said, you do have to put yourself out there. That’s part of the process. Be open. Be brave. Be willing to laugh about the disasters and appreciate the little moments. But don’t let dating become something that drains you to the point of hopelessness.
Dating in college should feel like an adventure, not a punishment. A search for connection, for romance, or just for a good story. Whether you’re looking for a life partner or just a dinner date who makes you laugh, remember: this is your timeline, and there’s no wrong way to move through it.
Just breathe, and have fun!
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By Logan O’Connor
Logan is a rising senior at NYU pursuing degrees in Journalism and Politics. She grew up on Long Island, but always dreamed of living in New York City. When she’s not in class or at her favorite local cafe, you can find her wandering the city (film camera in hand) or baking up a storm in her kitchen.
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As much as I love New York City, sometimes I yearn for an escape. I find myself craving being away from the crowded streets and busy roads. Even though New York hums with adventure, I sometimes seek to step outside the noise, to hear birdsong without it being drowned out by someone yelling for a cab or ordering an iced latte. Sometimes, I just need a break.
Whether you’re feeling homesick, tired, or just need a change of scenery, getting out of the city for a bit is perfectly normal. My freshman year was full of excitement, discovery, and growth. But with all of that came the occasional wave of exhaustion. I was used to the slower pace of home, where long drives with friends and late-night music felt like therapy. While I can’t say you can gain easy access to a car in Manhattan and zoom out of the city when things get tough, there are plenty of places nearby to escape to that can fulfill your mood.
One of my favorite out of city adventures that I went on was upstate New York during my freshman year. I visited one of my best friends at the University of Rochester during my fall semester. I chose October for peak foliage, and the Amtrak ride alone was enough to reset my spirit. Watching yellow, red, and orange leaves blur past my window with Taylor Swift’s Red album in my headphones? Total main character moment.
That weekend was filled with hayrides, apple picking, warm cider, and just enough nostalgia to make me feel like a little kid again. It was exactly the break I didn’t know I needed. Not every escape needs to be far, either. Some of my favorite day trips are just a short train ride away. If you’re craving cozy fall vibes without the long haul, Cold Spring and Sleepy Hollow are perfect for quick getaways before winter hits.
Apple picking!
If you are looking for an escape during the warmer months of the season, there are also plenty of beaches close by where you can soak up the sun and do all of the daydreaming your heart desires. I love taking weekend trips to the Jersey Shore, where I can find myself getting a good bite to eat and sinking into warm sand as the ocean waves crash in front of me. Long Island is in the other direction, but still has some amazing beaches to visit, as well wooded areas filled with calm walking paths that soothe the mind. For any trip out of the city, my best advice is to plan early so that you can goon these fun adventures without hurting your wallet.
I used to think needing to leave meant I wasn’t cut out for New York, but I realize now it’s quite the opposite. Understanding your limits, listening to your body and mind, and giving yourself permission to take a breather is what allows you to actually enjoy the city when you return.
So don’t feel guilty if you need to step away. Take the trip. The city isn’t going anywhere. Your MetroCard will still work, the bagels will still taste like home, and the lights will still be twinkling when you return.
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By Skylar Park
Skylar Park is a Film & TV student at NYU with a passion for storytelling and city adventures. When she’s not writing or filming, you can find her running by the East River or hunting down the coziest bookstores in New York City.
For over 25 years, the Campus Clipper has helped college students in New York City—and later in Boston and Philadelphia—save money and succeed in city life. We offer a digital coupon booklet with discounts on food, clothing, and services, plus an Official Student Guidebook with real advice on how to navigate college life in a big city. Our internship program lets students build skills, earn money, and publish their own e-books. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @CampusClipper, and sign up for our newsletter to get deals straight to your inbox. To access the digital coupons, scan the QR code on our printed card—available in dorms, student centers, and around campus.
In a city that never stops moving, sometimes the best thing you can do is move right along with it. But I’ve learned that movement in New York isn’t just about getting from point A to point B. It’s about finding motion that grounds you. Whether you’re sweating through a fun fitness class, getting lost in a run along the water, or hiking in one of the city’s hidden natural oases, movement can be your anchor. It is a way to reset, refocus, and feel connected to both the city and yourself.
When I first moved to NYC, I was balancing a lot of factors. I was trying to navigate living in a big city, making friends, and managing all of my classes. When it all felt too overwhelming, I found that moving my body helped me take a step back and tackle whatever was stressing me out with a more focused mindset. My personal favorite way to move my body is running along the East River. There’s something about that stretch of waterfront that makes the entire city feel like it’s holding its breath. The path, which runs alongside FDR Drive, offers stunning views of the skyline, bridges, and water. Mornings are my favorite because there’s a calm in the air that feels rare for Manhattan. The sound of sneakers hitting pavement, the sight of the sunrise glinting off the water, and the cool breeze off the river all work together to make the world feel manageable again. Even on my most chaotic days, that run gives me the reset I need.
If you prefer a slower pace, a walk along the river is just as healing. I like to plug in a calming playlist, or sometimes nothing at all, and just take in the view. I pass dog walkers, couples, and other solo walkers who all seem to be doing the same thing: finding space in a city where space is hard to come by.
Another gem in the city is a trail called “The Ramble” in Central Park. Tucked away from the main loops and touristy areas, “The Ramble” feels like a secret garden. It’s filled with winding dirt paths, rocky steps, and trees that arch overhead like a protective canopy. You’ll often hear birds before you hear cars, which in Manhattan is saying something. I like to go there when I need to unplug completely. It’s one of the few places where I can trick myself into thinking I’m on a real hike, not surrounded by skyscrapers that are just a few blocks away. Last time I went, I even saw three baby raccoons walk in front of me as I journaled on a rock!
Here is a calming view you can get when hiking “The Ramble.”
If you are someone that prefers a more structured way to move, then fitness classes might be right up your alley. NYC offers a huge variety of workout classes ranging from spin classes to boxing and even trampoline cardio. You can also find communities in run groups or intramural sports throughout the city. If you want something really cute and healing, there is also puppy yoga. Yes, you heard me! You can do downward dog while an actual puppy lies next to you! The best part is that many of these classes offer student discounts as well!
In New York, movement is everywhere; you just have to choose which rhythm feels right for you. Let the city’s energy inspire you, but don’t forget to make it your own. When you discover a movement that soothes your mind, the city begins to feel less overwhelming and more like home.
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By: Skylar Park
Skylar Park is a Film & TV student at NYU with a passion for storytelling and city adventures. When she’s not writing or filming, you can find her running by the East River or hunting down the coziest bookstores in New York City.
For over 25 years, the Campus Clipper has helped college students in New York City—and later in Boston and Philadelphia—save money and succeed in city life. We offer a digital coupon booklet with discounts on food, clothing, and services, plus an Official Student Guidebook with real advice on how to navigate college life in a big city. Our internship program lets students build skills, earn money, and publish their own e-books. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @CampusClipper, and sign up for our newsletter to get deals straight to your inbox. To access the digital coupons, scan the QR code on our printed card—available in dorms, student centers, and around campus.
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