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TIPS ON JOB-SEARCHING

Monday, January 3rd, 2011

While perusing the Craigslist part-time job ads a couple days ago, I stumbled upon the following ad:

Small business owner mid-30’s looking for part time help from someone energetic, hard working, and flexible.

Would be need 10-20 hrs per week.

Some of the tasks include filing, copies, calls, answering phones, and giving the owner massages.

Great pay.

Thanks 

Sounds good, I thought initially. “Great pay”, easy hours, a nice office setting. But I felt like I’d missed something. I re-read the message. Yep, there it was, in plain print. “Giving the owner massages.” That short phrase threw the whole deal into question.

What did the job poster mean by it, I wondered. Perhaps it was just a typo. Possibly he had meant, “giving the owner messages.” That would make more sense, right? But I had the sinking feeling that this was for real. The mid-thirties small business owner needed a little company.

This ad is a perfect illustration of the sort of hit-and-miss scenario that characterizes job-searching. You apply to 50 jobs you want and 5 you don’t want, and you get hired for the job you didn’t want. You get called in for an interview, impress the boss with your attitude and expertise, then learn they gave the job to the girl who rushed in to the interview 20 minutes late. Believe me, I know all the scenarios, and have lived through most of ’em. Ever since I left the hallowed halls of my university nearly 2 years ago, my life has been one big job search. It’s been stressful, discouraging, anxiety-provoking, and sometimes downright miserable. I’ve pounded the pavement on strange streets. I’ve knocked on doors and been turned away. I’ve bade goodbye to co-workers who’d become the best of friends. 

But through it all, there’s always been hope. There’s always been a job out there for me, and some of them I’ve really loved. I’ve proudly shaken the hand of new employers. I’ve walked home from a hard-day’s work feeling like I earned that paycheck. And through it all, I developed a first-hand knowledge of job-hunting that I’d like to share with you!

WHERE TO LOOK

CRAIGSLIST
As the “giving owner massages” ad illustrates, there are always a few bad apples to be found on this site. But many of them are legit. I’ve found several jobs, gigs, and internships through Craigslist.

SEARCHING OLD SCHOOL
Sometimes, nothing beats old-fashioned pounding the pavement. Try your local neighborhood first. With any luck you’ll be able to walk to work, one of of the bonuses of living in NYC. If you don’t find any openings in your neighborhood, try bigger streets. I recommend hitting Times Square, or 5th Ave in Manhattan. There are always openings in these high traffic areas. Simply walk into a store and ask if they are hiring.

JATCHED
Check out JATCHED.com! JATCHED, which is featured in our new book, the NYC Student Guide, is a job-matching service that pairs college students with prospective NYC employers.  

REVAMP YOUR RESUME

Your resume should always be up-to-date and reflect all your abilities. Employers don’t know anything about you except what your resume tells them. Are you hard-working? Do you always go the extra mile? Don’t assume the employer knows, tell them. Sometimes it’s not good enough to just type that you were a copy-editor for the campus paper. Describe how many times you worked overtime in the staff room.

BE WILLING TO SETTLE FOR LESS SOMETIMES, BUT ALWAYS KEEP REACHING FOR MORE

Sometimes you’ll have to work a couple shifts at McDonald’s before you score that perfect job. Remember a paycheck is a paycheck. And in the meantime, think of this as only one step in the path of following your dream.

SEE UNEMPLOYMENT AS AN OPPORTUNITY

Right now, you don’t have a job, but think of it this way. At least you’re not stuck at a job you hate! Endless opportunities await you. You can work anywhere, or do anything you want. You just have to keep looking, have the right mindset, and always follow your dreams!

Written by Megan Soyars, Campus Clipper blogger

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GEARING UP FOR THE NEW SEMESTER

Friday, December 31st, 2010

While in college, the spring semester always seemed to follow too closely on the heels of the first. I’d just finished celebrating Christmas and New Year’s and then, boom, it was time to fork up that Best Buy giftcard Granny had given me to buy some supplies. I always seemed to need more than I’d realized. It was like all my pens, pencils, and binders had somehow gotten sucked into a black hole in that interim between semesters. Plus, I usually needed a new book bag because my old one had gone out of style. (Those super-cute Vera Bradley bags were popular, but they were also $80.) 

Like me, you’re either preparing for the winter session (which–yipes– is only a week away!) or the spring semester. Either way, you need to restock those school supplies. If you don’t have a generous Granny like I do, don’t worry. There are still ways to save money this year!  

First of all, Blick Art Materials is offering a great 20%  off coupon here! You’re sure to find all you need at Blick, whether you’re an art or design major, trying out a couple creative classes, or just want to pick up some pens and paper.  Utrecht Art Supplies also provides students discounts. And finally, don’t forget to stop by the Unique Copy Center. Whether you’re designing a newsletter for your campus club, creating a mock-up for your magazine writing class, or have just run out of printer paper before your 20 page thesis is due, check out the Copy Center. And don’t forget this discount!

I wish you a great New Year and a great new semester! With these discounts, you’ll definitely have all the supplies you need to end the school year in style.

–Written by Megan Soyars, Campus Clipper Blogger

                                                                                                                                                                                              

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WHOLE FOODS SHOPPING TIPS

Friday, December 31st, 2010

Photo courtesy of EscapeYourDreams

When I became a junior in college, I stopped paying for my campus’ meal plan. Letting go of the meal plan was something of a bittersweet parting. I was saving nearly 100 a month, but I was missing out on all my cafeteria favorites, like the grilled-to-order burgers and the greasy but finger-lickin’ good chicken basket. Unlike many college campuses, Trinity University boasted a pretty decent cafeteria. I especially pined for the cafeteria’s “comfort food” line, which served up home-made favorites like chicken-fried steak and mac ‘n’ cheese. But I consoled myself with the fact that I was nearly 500 dollars richer, and headed to the local grocery store to pick up some….hmm, what fitted into my budget? Now that my food wasn’t being paid by my college tution, I had to fork up my own funds to get a meal. Looked like I could only afford Ramen noodles.  

But that was okay. I figured the all-Ramen noodle diet was a principle part of the college student’s existence. But does it have to be? There’s only a few ways you can spice up limp noodles and smallish gray chunks of “meat.” But never fear! Before you reach for that one dollar cup-a-soup, check out Whole Food’s weekly and very informative newsletter, The Whole Deal. The Whole Deals lets you know of money-saving grocery tips, so you don’t have to rely on noodles every other night the way I did. I found their recent article, “10 money-saving tips for shopping” useful, especially during this holiday season. I really appreciated their last tip, “Buy some baked goods.” As they mention, sometimes it’s better to “buy time than to buy all the ingredients to make [baked goods] from scratch.” I have to admit, between my internship and work, I didn’t have the time (or the requisite kitchen supplies) to make an apple pie. First of all, I needed a whisk, and I didn’t think a table spoon or a plastic knife I’d taken from McDonald’s would work. And Whole Food’s baked pies are more srumptious than anything I could come up with!

So remember to check out Whole Food’s newsletter for some more handy tips to stretch your dollar and add some variety to your menu. They also offer handy coupons  like this one, both through the Campus Clipper and their own website. Happy Holidays (and put down that pack of noddles)!  

-Written by Megan Soyars, Campus Clipper Blogger

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NYC Student Guide Authorship

Friday, December 17th, 2010

The Campus Clipper NYC Student Guide has been completely created by NYC students just like you. These talented writers, editors, and illustrators have contributed their personal experiences to the guide. And now we want to tell you a little bit more about them!

WRITERS

ALEKSANDRA BOOKMAN

Aleksandra is the co-creator of the innovative start-up company JATCHED. JATCHED is a unique job-matching website designed specifically for college students. Check it out at www.JATCHED.com.

CHRISTINA BOWER

 

Christina is a senior at Fordham University. She is currently interning at a publishing company and PR firm, and loves to write in her free time

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MARY CASEY

Mary, an NYU student, created JATCHED.com along friend and fellow classmate Aleksandra Bookman. She’s currently pursuing a glider pilot license.

BONNIE GLEICHER

Bonnie is a University of Wisconsin-Madison graduate. Her talents include writing and music. She’s recently combined these talents to write a rock musical, “The Era of Me.” Check out her webpage here and listen to some tunes!

SHANA HITT

Shana graduated from Brauch College, where she earned her B.A. in creative writing and journalism. She’s currently writing a book of original poetry.

EMILY HO

Emily is currently studying business and psychology at NYU. However, she has always possessed a passion for writing.

KERRY ANNE HOFFMAN

Kerry Anne is a freelance blogger and writer. She writes for newyork.com, a site that features articles on life in NYC. She’s also created a food blog, www.thenycmenugirl.com, where she recommends restaurants throughout the city.

MARY KRAMER

Mary is studying literature and criticism at CUNY Hunter College. She is currently working with the non-profit organization, Interfaith Hospitality Network, which provides housing, counseling, and job placement for the homeless.

MAYA KLAUSNER

Maya is a recent NYU graduate. She’s a talented comedian who is currently performing stand-up throughout the city. She also is a freelance writer who contributes to the New York Culture and Events column on www.examiner.com.

EKATERINA LALO

Ekaterina is a poet and novelist, but she is also interested in languages and translation. She is currently a senior at Kingsborough Community College.

ANDREW LIMBONG

Andrew is studying journalism and English at the State University of New York New Paltz. He also contributes articles to Death+Taxes magazine. Andrew is a Brooklyn native, and has lived in the city all his life. Check out one of his articles here!

TANIA LUNA

Tania is the co-founder of the unique company, www.SurpriseIndustries.com. Surprise Industries schedules events for you to attend, but you don’t know what you’re getting till you go there! The event can be anything from fire-eating to ice-sculpting contests.

CECYCLIA MAKAREWICZ

Cecyclia is majoring in illustration and cartooning at the School of Visual Arts. She has her own blog, “I Create New York,” and is also working on several graphic novels.

MEGHAN QUINIAN

Meghan is double-majoring in English and Dance at Marymount Manhattan College. She hope to gain a PhD in Performance Studies after graduating from MMC.

JON REITZEL

Jon is a NYU student who also volunteers at the Saint Joseph’s Soup Kitchen in the West Village. He feels as if he is really making a difference there. He is currently studying French, Latin, and Comparative Literature.

RONI TESSLER

Roni is currently studying at City College, with a diverse concentration in both Theatre and pre-med. He has performed in several theatre productions, including a Midsummer’s Night Dream at The American Theater of Actors.

EDITING

SABINA ASHBAUGH

Sabina is an NYU studying both English and Economics. After graduating, she hopes to pursue either journalism or publishing. Although she has only lived in NYC one year, she plans to live here permanently (hopefully settling in a West Village town house!)

ELISABETH SHERMAN

Elisabeth is currently studying at Eugene Lang College. Her favorite book is The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger, which in of itself is a type of “NYC Student Guide.”

PHOTOGRAPHERS

MAURICE DECAUL

Maurice is studying creative writing Columbia University. He has lived in New York City almost his entire life. Check out his show, “Holding it Down,” which concerns the lives and dreams of veterans and civilians involved in currently military conflicts. It premiers next month on the Harlem Stage.

AECHEE KANG

Aechee has recently graduated from LaGaurdia Community College. She was born and raised in Japan. She is an artist and documentary photographer. Currently, she is working on an art project entitled “Incomplete Portrait of Chaos,” which combines poetry and two documentaries.

ALYSSA LAMONTAGNE

Alyssa is a native Canadian who graduated from Columbia University. She is both a writer and photographer. Currently, she is editing and writing for C-Spot magazine.

AYLA LUTHIEN MARIE

Ayla is working for the Campus Clipper as a graphic designer for both the magazine and website. She has lived in New York City for several years but has traveled widely, including to Europe and Pakistan.

ILLUSTRATION AND DESIGN

JULEE YOO

Julee is majoring in illustration at Parsons School of Design. Julie is currently working on an art project which is investigating similarities between Western and Eastern Cultures duing the 14th Century.

JING YU

Jing is attending graduate school at Pratt Institute, where she is studying Communicative Design. She has recently completed her graduate thesis on increased car usage in China, where she encourages citizens to use public transportation.

SARAH YEKUTIELI

Sarah is currently working as a designer for the Campus Clipper magazine. She put a great deal of work into creating the Guide; doing everything from coming up with the themes to laying out the pages. She is also finished her undergraduate study at the Lander College for Women. Her websites include www.leadingupsolutions.com and www.jumpfwd.com

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Landing that Job

Friday, December 10th, 2010

Written by Megan Soyars

As a college student, you’ve got a lot on your plate. Classes, homework, extracurrics, plus a social life–the list could go on forever. Throw a part-time job into the mix, and…what? You say you don’t have time for a part-time job? It sounds like you need help juggling your life.

But never fear, the NYC Student Guide is here to help you! Campus Clipper’s recent publication, the Guide, offers advice on how to manage both studying and work while giving both of them the time they deserve.

For example, the Guide features the innovative start-up company, JATCHED.com.  JATCHED, a job-matching service specifically for college students, was designed by two entrepunerial NYU students, Aleksandra Bookman and Mary Casey.

JATCHED is unique among other job-matching sites because it caters to the college student’s hectic schedule. You’d complained that you don’t have time for a part-time job. Well, JATCHED has the solution to that quandry. The site features gigs that you can work around your schedule, rather than the employer’s. Some examples include transcribing, dog walking, and web designing. And many of these gigs can be down from the comfort of your dorm room! No need to trek out into the cold to that 9:00-5:00 shift. So next time you find yourself pinching pennies in a time crunch, check out JATCHED.com.  

Aside from offering job advice, the NYC Student Guide apprises students about scoring internships, joining campus groups, and a host of other topics. Pre-order your $9.95 copy to today by emailing us at clip@campusclipper.com!

-Megan, Trinity University

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A Guide to the Social Scene

Wednesday, December 1st, 2010

After graduating from college, I spent a summer working on a dude ranch in Wyoming. The closest town boasted several hundred people and two nightlife scenes—The Rustic Pine Bar and the Whiskey Creek Salon. Needless to say, my friends and I weren’t presented with many options during a Friday night on the town. After my season at the ranch ended, I headed to what felt like the other side of the world—that eclectic, multifarious mess that is New York City. I stepped out my front door and fell into a medley of bars, restaurants, and dance clubs. I was gleeful at the options, but they left my head spinning. Where should I head that night? Unless the friends I was with suggested something, I was utterly lost. It wasn’t like choosing between the rock/country vibe of Whiskey Creek or the slightly more upscale ambiance (i.e.—no deer heads on the wall) of the Rustic Pine.

But if you have our new book—the NYC Student Guide—handy, you don’t have to be stuck in a conundrum like I was my first weeks in NYC. The Guide informs you of the hottest places to hit around the city. No matter what your passion–salsa dancing, indie band concerts, or wine tasting, the Guide lets you know where you can find it.

Aside from suggestions on the social scene, our book also provides you with advice on studying, roommates, internships, and jobs; basically all you need to know about living your student life in NYC. And as you head out tonight, be thankful you have more places to party than the Rustic Pine! Thanks to the Guide, you know just where to find ’em.

E-mail us at clip@campusclipper.com to pre-order your copy of the NYC Student Guide at the affordable price of $9.95.

-Megan, Trinity University

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LISTENING TO OTHERS

Friday, October 8th, 2010

written by EKATERINA LALO

I sat down in my favorite restaurant with my friend. We were having a discussion about places we would like to go and clothes we liked to wear. I asked for a weird combination: a cup of Earl Grey tea and a slice of pizza.
When I got my tea, it was English Breakfast. I was upset, but I didn’t want to make a big deal out of it. I thought about how often we don’t listen to people or don’t want to understand them. In the meantime, I wasn’t listening to what my friend was telling me . . .
If it was me who wasn’t heard, I would be very offended. Why are we, people, so selfish?
We like to listen to things we agree with. “Thanks, I’m happy that you like my new dress. I bought it today,” a woman says happily, smiling at the gentleman complimenting her. If he said, on the contrary, “I think this color doesn’t suit you,” she would, most likely, give him a scornful look – even if he was right and she knew it. We don’t like to be criticized. But then how would we know that we are not doing as well as we could be?
I think the problem is that we take criticism as something purely negative. We believe that people don’t like us personally when they notice that our clothing doesn’t look nice or that we speak too loudly. However, in most cases, people who share their opinion with us are those who love us, who want to make us better, who kindly point out our mistakes so that we may correct them. We should listen to become better.
You may ask: shouldn’t we be faithful to our own opinion and choices? But how do we form an opinion? We make decisions based on agreement or disagreement with others. As far as I’m concerned, I chose a journalism major because I love to write, I am good at it, and I want to become even better. I need to be able to write in different genres, and I would love to write efficiently in at least three languages. So when I was choosing a major, I decided that studying journalism would give me a new writing perspective: impersonal and objective. I didn’t want to become a lawyer or a nurse like everybody else, even though many people advised me to go for something “more profitable.” I knew that even having a lot of money would not give me the self-satisfaction I get from writing.
But I listened to them, and I understand and support those people who think that money matters. I just also understand that liking what I do is more meaningful for me.
The simple truth: we don’t have to agree. We just need to listen to others; it helps to be more open-minded. If the only culture and mentality you know is your own, how would you know and appreciate your next-door neighbors in a city like New York, where everyone is different. Diversity helps us and at the same time, requires us to listen and understand.
As I was thinking about all that, my friend got angry at me because I did not hear what she said. In the meantime, the waiter came back with the right tea, and I told my friend, “I’m sorry, honey, I got upset about the tea.” She nodded.
And I kept pondering what was more important: her narrative, or my thoughts about listening and diversity.

EKATERINA LALO is a writer for Campus Clipper. You can read more of her thoughts on life and love in the Campus Clipper guidebook, “NYC Student Guide” due out this fall 2010.

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BUILDING A SUCCESSFUL RESUME

Friday, October 8th, 2010

written by CHRISTINA BROWER
photography by ALYSSA LAMONTAGNE

Theoretically, college is supposed to be the path to our dreams – the infamous road that we are all supposed to take in order to successfully launch our careers and begin our lives in the so-called real world. We apply to prestigious schools and pay insane amounts in tuition with the hope that the things we learn and do in the classroom will train and prepare us for the futures we have planned for ourselves.
However, most of us have terrifyingly empty resumes, which serve as nothing more than dismal reminders of the experience we have yet to gain and the things we have yet to accomplish. What’s worse is that landing an internship or job within any given field usually requires some sort of previous experience.
So how are you – a student with nothing but a high school diploma and a few semesters of college under your belt – supposed to break into the working world? By remembering this: experience comes in many forms. There are a lot of ways to beef up your resume without having any prior professional experience. You just have to look a little more closely to see how broad your horizons actually are.
For example, now that you are out of high school, why do you have to stop doing extracurricular activities? Remember how being involved in clubs and intramural activities helped you get into college? Well, the same rules can apply in order to make you a more viable candidate for an internship or a job. Being involved in different organizations on campus not only adds a few lines to your resume, but also gives you the life experience that intern coordinators and human resource representatives are looking for in a candidate. It shows potential employers that you are able to commit your time and effort to doing something, that you can work together with others, and that you can simultaneously balance multiple responsibilities. In addition, some extracurricular activities, such as student governments and activist groups, allow you to exercise your leadership and organizational abilities illustrating how effectively you can handle different levels of responsibility and how efficiently you can accomplish given tasks.
Secondly, try to find a volunteer position in the field of work you would eventually like to enter.  Again, any experience is good experience: a well-rounded person is more appealing to an employer than a one-trick pony. So, for example, if you would like to be a teacher, offer to tutor children around your neighborhood or volunteer teaching kids to read at your local library.
Thirdly, do not whittle away your entire summer at the beach. Getting a summer job will not only put extra cash in your pocket, it will also give you future references who can vouch for your work ethic in addition to your school professors and academic advisors.  Furthermore, talk to the student employment offices at your school to see if they can give you an on-campus work-study job during the fall and spring semesters. This way you can learn the basics of how an office works without sacrificing your grades.
College is the path to fulfilling your aspirations, and yet much of your future is dependent upon the steps you take to get there. Taking the proper measures in the beginning of your journey will ultimately help you out in the long run.

Christina Brower is a writer for Campus Clipper. You can read more of her advice on jobs, fashion, and student life in the Campus Clipper guidebook, “NYC Student Guide” due out in this fall 2010.

Maya Klausner is a writer for Campus Clipper. You can read more of her tips on food, fun, and entertainment in the Campus Clipper guidebook, “ NYC Student Guide” due out in Oct. 2010.

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READING TO SURVIVE IN THE CITY

Friday, October 8th, 2010

written by SABINA ASHBAUGH

July and August are quiet months when New Yorkers can flee the airless subway platforms and sizzling cement of the city by commuting to weekend houses in beach towns along the coast. For everyone else, however, the end of the summer can be a time to indulge in the luxury of staying in, or, for those without air conditioning, a time to seek out the indoor public spaces that offer refuge during the 102 degree heat waves.
When incentive to go outside wanes with every degree, reading is a way to stay entertained during weeks of self-imposed exile. In the midst of stifling humidity, you may find yourself unable to resist the easy mindlessness of the season’s reality television or blockbuster hits. Summer, however, doesn’t have to be a period of mental idleness. When avoiding crowds and too much direct sunlight, easy summer reading offers an escape from the boredom that can come from shutting oneself away.
This summer, Stieg Larsson’s Millennium trilogy could be spotted on subways and beach towels across Manhattan. The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo is a good hot weather choice when the temperature makes it all too easy to toss away anything dense before the end of the first chapter. The novel follows Mikael Blomkvist, a crusading journalist, and Lisbeth Salander, an outcast by choice and perhaps the novel’s most winning character, as they investigate corrupt corporate officials and creepy family histories. Larsson’s characters are endearing, and the author’s clear and economic prose moves the story forward quickly. The novel’s many plot twists will impel readers to keep turning pages even when attention spans seem to dissipate with the heat.
Roberto Bolaño’s sprawling 2666 is just long and layered enough to make it difficult to finish during the busier months of the year. The novel, which is divided into five parts, traces the legacy of the fictional author Archimboldi and the lives of those searching for or connected to him. Bolaño zooms in on the violence of both WWII and the murders of the women of Santa Teresa, a thinly veiled reference to the deaths in Ciudad Juárez, to draw unexpected connections between the lives of the novel’s many characters. Sections such as those describing the Mexico deaths are difficult to read, while other parts are strangely lyrical—eerie descriptions of people and events that blend the distinction between the realistic and mystical. 2666 is an intricate work that will keep readers immersed in Bolaño’s world and out of Manhattan’s humidity.
Summer also provides the opportunity to read the lesser-known works of beloved classic authors. Ernest Hemingway’s For Whom the Bell Tolls is a great summer choice for those who cherished The Sun Also Rises or A Farewell to Arms. As in his other works, Hemingway’s prose is stark and ingeniously simple. The novel’s protagonist is Robert Jordan, an American fighting against the fascists during the Spanish Civil War. Hemingway’s account of the guerilla leaders in the mountains portrays the complexity of those who sacrificed for the Republic even as it began to fall. The story also revolves around Robert Jordan’s relationship with Maria—a love fraught with the complications of the war, doomed from the start. Hemingway’s book moves forward quickly, but the recollections of past cruelties and the perpetual uneasiness of the protagonist stays with the reader long after the final chapter. For Whom the Bell Tolls is a great summer read for long time Hemingway fans or those new to the author’s distinctive style.
The Internet offers perhaps the widest range of easy distraction at easy disposal. To keep your mind from completely melting, however, avoid hours of StumbleUpon and an online browsing to sites that require at least some mental activity. Most newspaper and magazine articles can now be found online, and the proliferation of blogs means almost everyone can create a list of fast daily reads. Literary sites like McSweeney’s Internet Tendency, which offers a variety of short and often hilarious works, are a good way to stay entertained while surfing the web. Book reviews like The New York Times’ Sunday Book Review are also available through the Internet. Reviews keep readers up to date on the latest publications while also giving them a sense of which books they’re more likely to enjoy. Twitter offers distraction in less than 140 characters, and comments from public figures like Roger Ebert can provide comic relief throughout the day.
Reading isn’t limited to being a stressful aspect of classes. It can also be a relaxing way to leave summer in the city behind. Reading for pleasure is an easy luxury reserved for the warmer months that serve as a hiatus from New York’s usually frantic pace. Use the heat as an excuse to browse local bookstores or check out new blogs while basking in the AC. Before the temperature dips below the 40s, enjoy the tail end of summer indoors by embracing the seasonal slow pace without dulling your mind.

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LONG HAIR IS MY BEST FRIEND

Friday, October 8th, 2010

 

written by ELIZABETH SHERMAN

I have this theory about my hair. I’m convinced that once it grows out past my shoulders again, every man in Manhattan will think I’m beautiful, and I won’t go more than two days without snagging a boyfriend. Not that I remember what it takes to fool a man into dating me—its been nearly a year since I ended a tumultuous, three year relationship, and I haven’t come close to dating anyone since. But none of that matters: my happiness, my sanity, rests on the length of my hair.
Consider every Victoria Secret Model currently plastered across billboards and buses, the pictures of the most popular celebrities on the cover of almost every fashion magazine, or even the most popular girl from your high school. Each of these women have one trait in common: they all have long, soft, smooth locks of hair. Long hair represents femininity, and as a girl that’s had short hair since I was 12, I’ve often missed out on the pleasure of being considered feminine, in the most traditional, classical sense.  Over the years, I’ve succumbed to the belief that my love life will suddenly take off once I have long hair again.
In my experience, relationships have been tests- long, arduous, frustrating experiments in human emotion. Love has left me reevaluating my values, beliefs, ethics, all doubts about my character have surfaced, every scrap of self consciousness has emerged.  Though it seems bleak, for me, love’s ability to stir up the strongest, most passionate emotions is what draws me to it. The cliché is real, love hurts, and yet most people are dying to experience the mayhem, myself included. Love takes true dedication, a willingness to brave and embrace the potential chaos fearlessly. My over-active imagination might like me to believe that the only reason I’m still single in New York is because of the length of my hair, but in reality, I’m scared of falling in love.
As a successful student and writer, I’m used to working hard. But in both my writing and school work, I know there is going to be a tangible pay off at the end of the day: I can see my work published, and good grades result in the praise of my parents and my peers. Relationships are trickier. For most people, working hard in a relationship often does pay off in the long run, but people’s emotions are unpredictable. Sometimes, the people we love let us down, even when we spend all our time and energy ensuring they won’t; that’s just part of being in a relationship. What if I risk everything, (my sensitive emotions, my trust, all my secrets) and I end up heartbroken and alone all over again? I’ve taken a risk on a person whom I trusted, and he betrayed my trust without even blinking. Of course I’m scared now.
Yet I’m fully aware that there will always be some degree of risk when forging a new relationship, always some chance it won’t work out in the end. Failure is a natural aspect of being human. Not everything goes according to plan and I’m not perfect; I can’t force love on myself or anyone else. But on the off chance that it does work out, it’s usually worth the sacrifice just to experience the happiness that love brings.
I’m still learning how to forge successful relationships. Having the little experience that I have puts me in good shape, despite how dire things might look right now. Everyday I complain to my friends about how I’m still single, but rushing into something now would be a disaster for me. When I’m ready to face all my fear of failure and rejection with my head held high(short hair and all), I’ll deserve the love I desire.

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