Train platforms are where NYC commuter college students wait for trains that serve as vessels to higher education enlightenment.
I feel for most of my life that I’ve been anticipating the grand event of attending college. Barely out of elementary school and still I would speak to any adult willing to listen about what institution of higher education I’d like to attend and what my major in college would be. Every year my top choice school would change as well as the major along with the career I truly thought I’d pursue. Today I know that I was not meant to be a veterinarian no matter how much my nine-year-old self would like to argue otherwise. I really hope time machines are not invented anytime soon for my own safety and benefit. I also now know that you don’t have to attend an Ivy League school to develop into a successful individual. It is not the name of your college that determines your future, the work and effort you put in is what makes your own name all the more valuable.
It is common for college to not meet your expectations, this is especially the case when you attend a commuter college like I do, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it will be a bad experience. It will be different from what you imagined for many people, not for all. However, different can translate to good I’ve learned. My image of college as a kid was deeply concentrated in the mirage reciprocated to me by the media. Attending a commuter college is like being thrown into a dry desert alone and searching for an oasis. At first I was angry with myself for choosing a college that wasn’t meeting my expectations, but gradually I realized they were biased ones. Yes, attending a commuter college is rather different from the experience of my friends who attend schools like Northeastern and just about every SUNY College, but there is something rewarding about knowing I can handle the trials and tribulations of a commuting college student. I can deal with the stress of chaotic commutes, now know New York City like the back of my hand, and juggle a part-time job in the mix as well. This is not easy, yet I find it helpful because it’s a realistic experience unlike the typical college setting. The commuter college is representative of the real world where life’s necessities aren’t catered to you personally; you yourself must go out and get them.
Don’t get me wrong it’s not only hard work because that would be plain depressing! Attending a commuter college means I have access to the fun and great eats that can be found in surrounding neighborhoods. I personally think the subway is tons more magical than that closet entrance to Narnia. Also, there are great places to eat and see by walking distance too, like Papou’s Pizza. I didn’t expect my college experience to involve falling in love with the hustle and bustle of New York City. I enjoy the fast pace and do-it-yourself attitude about the commuter lifestyle. It’s not what I expected but I’ve learned to adapt. And that’s a necessity in a world where the survival of the fittest theory reigns true in every realm. I plan on surviving because my commuting student experience has taught me to do just that. But again, I really do hope that time machine isn’t anywhere near finished.
Anjelica LaFurno
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